For the Guys .... Do you always Ejacu...

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Registered: 03-31-2007
For the Guys .... Do you always Ejacu...
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Wed, 09-03-2008 - 9:10am

For the Guys .... Do you always Ejaculate during PARTNERED sex?



  • 100% Always
  • 90% or more of the time
  • At least 75% of the time
  • I'm shooting somewhere over 50%.
  • Maybe right around half of the time.
  • We have a lot of sex, I try to save it up, so less than 1/2 of the time I do!
  • Not very often! (25-40% of the time)
  • Very rarely .... less than 25% of the time
  • Never (tell us if that's okay with you)
  • Other .... please explain


You will be able to change your vote.






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Registered: 04-21-2008
Wed, 09-03-2008 - 11:56pm

I voted 90%+.


Sometimes it's just been too recent that we've done it and other times we just do it for so long that trying to force an orgasm would just be a chore. I usually do feel "unfinished" until I ejaculate but sometimes I'm more satisfied without it.

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Registered: 10-30-2007
Thu, 09-04-2008 - 1:25pm

That is how I felt and like Misty was concerned at first.


I learned that he enjoys just as much and doesn't need to in order to be satisfied, but it took a long time to understand and be ok.


I still prefer for my guy to shoot his load though.


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Registered: 04-18-2008
Thu, 09-04-2008 - 3:14pm

Voted for DH and said "other". We have sex about 7 or more times a week and he probably ejaculates 5 of those. I noticed weekends he tends to save up, even though we may have more sex then. So Monday -Thursday, 100% and Friday-Sunday maybe 50%. It is almost a game dh plays, holding back on purpose.

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Registered: 05-24-2008
Thu, 09-04-2008 - 6:47pm

"When this first started happening with him, I was a bit worried,"


yeah, I would have been concerned too.


"but eventually, his body just says it's done."


well, I know that men can orgasm without ejaculating - is that what your husband experiences?

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-24-2008
Thu, 09-04-2008 - 7:01pm

Yeah I would be a little concerned too - I know that men can orgasm without ejaculating.

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Registered: 02-28-2006
Thu, 09-04-2008 - 7:17pm
"Blue balls" are more about trying to convince the woman to change her mind than a real problem. It is a real condition, but every man has the cure "at hand" so to speak.


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Registered: 10-15-2006
Thu, 09-04-2008 - 9:35pm

I am having a hard time recalling a session when DH didn't complete the task....


Unless we were interrupted I'd say he hit the target 100% of the time.

















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Registered: 03-31-2007
Thu, 09-04-2008 - 10:22pm

He's not convinced that he can have an orgasm without ejaculating, so I can't really say that he is. However, he often goes through many of the same motions without actually ejaculating. Things like changes in breathing patterns, and sort of gasping, but then he seems to hold back. During these times, he's usually ejaculated within the past 24 hours or so, we're having frequent sex, and we're usually having a very long session. (The intercourse itself often goes on for 45 minutes or more.)

I saw that you also asked about blue balls. Definitely not an issue in this case. He drifts off to sleep in the same blissful state as if he had actually ejaculated. If it's during the day, he has that familiar glow. As for me, I've usually had so many orgasms that I've lost count (which I do believe is his goal).





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Registered: 05-24-2008
Fri, 09-05-2008 - 2:30pm
hehehe- I guess I was asking a rhetorical question.
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Registered: 04-20-2008
Fri, 09-05-2008 - 5:59pm

I voted other because about 80/85% are wet and the rest are dry. At age 71 I'll take them