Guys ... Erection without Climaxing ??

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Guys ... Erection without Climaxing ??
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Tue, 06-29-2004 - 12:58pm
What does it mean exactly when a man has an erection, but cannot climax? We experienced this problem last night and my husband said he thought it was because he had a lot of things on his mind from work plus the fact that we had a lot of sex throughout the weekend. He said he wanted to climax, but it just wasn't happening although he was very hard. ??? GUYS, have you experienced this and how did you feel. My husband seemed to be able to fall asleep normally - it wasn't like he had a case of blue balls or something. I was satisfied, but that was a first for us.

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Registered: 12-22-2003
Tue, 06-29-2004 - 1:03pm
It's not so uncommon... I find that I am very sensitive & can come quite easy...BUT if we go for extended periods of time I desensitize a bit & actually it can get harder to have an orgasm. Maybe he was fatigued, could be a variety of things, but don't focus on it. Enjoy the journey...not the destination.

Stephen

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Registered: 04-13-2004
Tue, 06-29-2004 - 1:08pm
That's what he said! Okay, good. He said he felt like a machine, ha-ha! Poor boy, guess I've been wearing him out lately. Plus they are working on a big case right now and it is taking a lot of his energy.

Thanks.

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Registered: 05-27-2004
Tue, 06-29-2004 - 1:57pm
Welcome to the REAL world!
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Registered: 04-13-2004
Tue, 06-29-2004 - 2:25pm
Does that happen to you a lot too?
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Registered: 10-23-2003
Tue, 06-29-2004 - 2:49pm
If your guy fell asleep normally after I wouldn't worry about it. I think it happens more times then we think. It could be stress or maybe just tired. Women have the same problem with orgasm.

Enjoy the ride.

Jim
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Registered: 04-13-2004
Tue, 06-29-2004 - 3:25pm
Yeah, he is pretty stressed out right now. Thanks!
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Registered: 04-21-2004
Tue, 06-29-2004 - 4:38pm

Sometimes it just happens that way. Surely you've had sex without a climax, haven't you?


Although it doesn't happen often, its no big deal when it does. Sex is still enjoyable, and if DW has an orgasm, so much the better. But sometimes you are just tired, in a weird mood,

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Registered: 04-13-2004
Tue, 06-29-2004 - 4:43pm
Not obsessing, just a first for us. Well, a first for him anyway. Yes, there have been times when I don't climax, of course. I guess it was because I always think if a man has a hard on erection, that he will be climaxing. But he didn't and after a long while, we both we're getting very tired so he just said he didn't think it was going to happen. I just wonder what happens to the erection? Just dies down? Apparently.

He's got a lot on his mind and is even having to travel for his case now, so I'm certain that is playing a big part.

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Tue, 06-29-2004 - 4:50pm
It happens, no more than a woman not having an orgasm every time.

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Registered: 04-13-2004
Tue, 06-29-2004 - 4:52pm
Thanks. Yes, he said he was really into it, just couldn't climax for some reason. He did seem into it and all, but towards the middle, we both seemed a little mechanical (ha-ha, like the energizer bunny going in a circle, but getting nowhere!) - like okay, hurry up! ha-ha.

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