GUYS: HAVE YOU EVER FAKED IT?

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GUYS: HAVE YOU EVER FAKED IT?
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Fri, 02-24-2006 - 5:05pm

Now, obviously, this is a question women are asked all the time. And faking would be pretty difficult for a man if he's not wearing a condom, but very possible if he is.

So, have you? And if so, why?

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Fri, 02-24-2006 - 10:04pm
Did you ever see the episode of 'Seinfeld' where Elaine tells Jerry that she faked every orgasm she had with him? On hearing this, Kramer admits that he's faked it several times himself. His reason was "Sometimes you're tired and want to go to sleep and, well, enough is enough." I did it myself a couple of times for that reason, but the last few times were because I was getting bored and I could tell I was starting to lose my erection, so I faked it so she wouldn't feel bad about me not being turned on enough to continue. Eventually, I stopped bothering with it and when it happened I would just quit. Anyway, I always thought that a man faking an orgasm was just a way for him to get in touch with his feminine side, LOL.
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Fri, 02-24-2006 - 11:41pm

I've never 'faked it.' But I instantly thought of that Seinfeld episode (The Mango), too,

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Sat, 02-25-2006 - 12:53am

Yeah, I've done it maybe once that I can think of. New partner, we really weren't clicking in bed. Didn't date for long :-)

Had a friend that faked it at least once or twice.

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Sat, 02-25-2006 - 5:39am
No, I haven't. There have been times when I couldn't orgasm, and I don't pretend.
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Sat, 02-25-2006 - 9:21am
Never had a guy fake it, if anything, I always had the opposite problem...men who came too soon and couldn't last.
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Sun, 02-26-2006 - 8:47am

Kat,

Since you brought it up, I read the Askmen.com board a lot and this question has come up a few times. Yes, quite a few men have faked an orgasm. And, yes, it's more difficult without a condom, but possible. Most women are just not that sensitive or aware.

Still, the men who do say they've done this, it's only a very few times. Women who fake it, on the other hand, probably do it a lot because they get "trapped in a lie".

taoist

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Mon, 02-27-2006 - 10:06am

I would have to disagree that most women aren't that "sensitive" to faking though, Taoist.

IF I had unprotected intercourse to "completion", I would definitely notice that there was no dripping or particular odor afterwards, singling a faked orgasm. Most sexually mature & experienced women WOULD notice that those things were missing.

And I figured that while women get the brunt of the teasing and negative stereotyping for faking, some men likely do it as well. At least occasionally. Looks like I was right, from the responses on this thread.

Thanks guys (and rain)! Much appreciated.




Edited 2/27/2006 10:08 am ET by katmandoo2001
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Sat, 03-25-2006 - 12:10pm
lol we have a running joke about this. he almost always does facials on me. i always tease him that he is just faking it! (it would be pretty hard for him to fake!!!)