% of guys-penis size insecurity

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% of guys-penis size insecurity
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Thu, 01-11-2007 - 6:53am
This isn't another 'does size matter' question. I'm asking the ladies how many of your boyfriends and husbands have had penis size insecurity, and how many didn't. Also, to the guys, have you had or do you have, insecurity about your size?

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Registered: 11-26-2004
Fri, 01-19-2007 - 8:48pm

...well...what would they be in retaliation of? Or is this the chicken and egg question? ;-)

Up until not so long ago, it was expected that a woman be a virgin and porn wasn't something that they exactly had access to. So what comparisons exactly did women have? How could they retaliate--they were too ignorant? Today, things are different.

In any event, I wasn't being all that serious, but most of the "penis" comments seem come in that vain. Women really do not care about penis size for the most part....I just think they want to give men a taste of their own medicine. I'm not agreeing with it, just pointing out an observation. On the other hand, I think that men who comment on women's bodies and specific parts, are being quite sincere. But it seems when it comes to men's comments, there seems to be a double-standard. It's perfectly acceptable for men to scruitinize women's bottoms, breasts, labias and vaginas, but when it comes to women scruitinizing penis size, it's all of a sudden insulting.

"Funny on a sex talk show where i live they usually get a bunch of guys and girls to talk about various sex topics and it's only the girls that make comment about guy’s bodies on it. Which leads me back to my point, that penis size isn't an issue crated by guys it's created by both genders"

Again, if that statement is true, so, then would be this one:

"Funny on a sex talk show where i live they usually get a bunch of guys and girls to talk about various sex topics and it's only the boys that make comment about girl’s bodies on it. Which leads me back to my point, that breast (vagina, ass....or whatever ;-)) size isn't an issue created by girls it's created by both genders"

...and that's a wrap! ;-)

Imagination is more important than knowledge." (Albert Einstein )
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Registered: 10-10-2006
Tue, 02-06-2007 - 9:42pm
H doesn't, B/F does.......
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Registered: 10-10-2006
Tue, 02-06-2007 - 10:13pm
not for me. the biggest i hasd actually hurt.he was also an idiot. my H is big around and my B/F is smaller than most, but he knows what to do with it and with other things, like his hands and mouth, and the sexiest thing of all is a man who will experiment.
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Registered: 10-16-2006
Wed, 02-07-2007 - 11:46am
If the percentage of men who were UNsatisfied with their size wasn't large, there wouldn't be such a market for those phony pills...but so many men are worried about getting an extra inch that they'll pay $39.95 to some huckster because just maybe it will work.
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Registered: 06-29-2006
Wed, 02-07-2007 - 12:34pm
Want to compare money wasted on scams?
Here's betting that there are far more women out there who blow money on scams to correct whatever flaws they perceive themselves as having, than a few guys who aren't packing the required "nine inches plus", prayed for by a few "large" women.
It's comical to consider how some could alleviate their own "issues" with a little exercise when complaining about something that their potential SO can do nothing about.
once.
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Registered: 11-13-2006
Tue, 02-13-2007 - 5:16pm

I don't hear a lot of women "complaining" about their partner's penis size.

Jilly

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Registered: 06-29-2006
Wed, 02-14-2007 - 10:33am
I agree that it shouldn't be any woman's job to "stoke her man's ego" just to make him feel better about any perceived inadequacies he or she may feel he possess.
At the same time, if a woman has intercourse with any man who has a penis larger than, say, three inches in length and, perhaps four inches in diameter, and SHE is incapable of feeling it inside her, just who is it who has a physical problem?
If she can't feel that, she can't feel her own finger, and is need of some vigorous exercise.
once.
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Registered: 06-29-2006
Wed, 02-14-2007 - 10:34am
Edit the previous post to say four inches in CIRCUMFRENCE!!
once.
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Registered: 11-13-2006
Thu, 02-15-2007 - 9:13am

I can't say which party has

Jilly

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Registered: 06-29-2006
Thu, 02-15-2007 - 11:18am
Your compassion is overwhelming.
Just the same, if she wishes for this "little man" to support both her and her/their children, don't you think it would be to her best interests to take HIS pleasure into consideration as well?
It's been said before, but the reality is that there is nothing that a man can do about increasing the size of his genitals.
The same isn't true, insofar as the tightness or tone of a caring woman.
once.

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