Guys -- Pre-cum?
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Guys -- Pre-cum?
| Thu, 04-15-2004 - 10:34am |
Although I read about it in erotic stories, etc., I have never produced pre-cum. I gather it is nature's way of helping get the lubrication started. I once asked a doctor about it & was told not to worry. I'm not worried at all (although I am a bit jealous of other's ability, since my gf HATES it when I lick my fingers -- makes her think of porn movies! LOL!). I am curious, however.
Guys, do you or don't you? Does this change with age? Level of excitement?

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BTW, What are you using the spit for? I would think that KY or Astroglide would be more effective and longer-lasting for manual foreplay.
Edited 4/15/2004 11:11 am ET ET by katmandoo2001
as for you licking your fingers, why?...i've never found i needed a man to do that to me...besides which it seems saliva drys up immediately, so i can't imagine that would do much good...its normal for females to lubricate themselves and i just can't imagine any benefit to "spit".
in conclusion, it seems some men do and some men don't leak pre-cum...both are obviously normal and cool by me.
honey
One word of caution, every little drop contains hundreds of sperm, and a woman can easily get pregnant from it. If your partner isn't on b/c, and you're not using a condom from the moment you're erect, you might find out the hard way that you're wrong.
And if you're right, as the doctor said, why worry? Those few drops don't have any effect sexually.
My husband does produce pre-cum and always did.
honey
You are right not to worry about not producing it, but you should also know, that its not really accurate to assume pre-cum is there for lubrication purposes. I know it varies from guy to guy, but I don't think there would be enough of it from the majority of guys to make any difference for lubrication. Pre-cum is just semen biologically, which means its primary purpose is delivery of sperm. The fact that it arrives with erection instead of orgasm is mostly a side effect of gearing up the machinery of sex. In other words, our organs aren't really built to produce lubrication.
Oh, but if she's not on birth control, you should definitely beware. That's a very easy way to get pregnant.
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