Guys these days ... lol

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Guys these days ... lol
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Mon, 07-12-2004 - 1:56pm
Gosh I feel like sexual customs are changing or something: I have a brand new relationship and we had sex for the first time last night. Without acting like it was the slightest bit unusual, when he was ready to orgasm he pulled out, yanked off the rubber, and held his penis about a foot or so over my face and masturbated all over me! Is this normal? I mean I have had a couple of men do similar things in the past but only when I knew them! I didn't so much mind as I was totally surprised ... there was nothing -mean- about it, he snuggled up afterwards and was totally friendly and cool ... I was like, ummm, OK ... one of my eyes was bloodshot this AM but otherwise I'm no worse for the wear ... still this is so wierd, I'm laughing b/c I guess I'm just not _au courant_ ....

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Registered: 10-10-2003
Wed, 07-14-2004 - 2:12pm
> Kinkiness will only remain kinky when it remains rare.

I like that! Cool thought.

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Registered: 04-13-2004
Wed, 07-14-2004 - 4:51pm
Kinky is kinky - no matter how often you indulge in it. We are almost always doing something along the lines of kink & it is always a wild and forbidden feeling. JMHO though.
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Registered: 06-24-2004
Wed, 07-14-2004 - 5:13pm
i remember when anal was kinky for us, its not any more. any act will become less taboo the more you do it.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 07-14-2004 - 5:23pm
Well, "my dear" Para, I apologize if I misinterpreted your words. That does happen from time to time. You should know that.

But simply disagreeing doesn't promote a negative atmosphere at all, at least, where I'm from and a good sexual dialogue will always include both.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 07-14-2004 - 7:19pm
"But simply disagreeing doesn't promote a negative atmosphere at all, at least, where I'm from and a good sexual dialogue will always include both."

Neat set of words, but I never posted anything in this string about promoting a negative atmosphere through "disagreeing" though.

The negative atmosphere "I" was responding to was promoted by negative comments "about men" in general...sigh...aaaaagain. I never responded to or said ANYTHING about disagreement. Hopefully we can avoid confusing the two any further.

I noticed that others, including yourself, responded to that same person. I was simply supporting the idea of more positivity in that poster as opposed to the way the rest of you responded. If you read my post and hers again, that should be pretty clear. If you got confused again, whatever, no problem, what do ya do.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 07-14-2004 - 11:26pm
Whatever. It's no biggie.

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