Guys, what's your ideal vaginal depth?

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Guys, what's your ideal vaginal depth?
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Mon, 06-26-2006 - 7:01pm

We have to get the guys to answer the same ridiculous, too often asked, questions....

1. 4" deep

2. 5" deep

3. 6" deep

4. 7" deep

5. 8-9" deep

6. "Hellooooo, down there!"

7. "I need a 4 X 4 strapped to my ass to keep me from falling in!"

8. "I could care less as long as she loves me."

9. "I wish we could stop these innane polls!"




Edited 6/26/2006 7:04 pm ET by katmandoo2001

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Fri, 06-30-2006 - 9:29pm

It always sounds as though you're trying to "undersell" large penises! The fact is, is that there are a large amount of men who have them, and just as many women who can accommodate them perfectly. In the event that the occasional mismatched couple get together I doubt that it will make any difference in the long run. You make do with what you have and what you cannot change. You make the best of the situation (whether too small, or too large). For the most part, the flexibilty of the vagina alots for most people being happy. I rarely hear "Johnny is so big, I can't enjoy sex....or Mary is so small, I can't enjoy sex."

You talk about an 8" penis as though it's gargantuan. ;-) Most women wouldn't have a problem accommodating one that size, just as you yourself, at what, 7" haven't encountered a problem with most women. Now, a 10 or 13 incher, sure. But I'd have to say, a man that large most likely has to learn to forget about "abandon." It's something he has to accept and master. He has had to most likely "do without" (not being able to penetrate several inches) the majority his life.....certainly a man with an 7 or 8" penis can't complain. ;-)

Your wife's ex obviously had some type of problem if he couldn't "protect" her first and foremost. It's all about trust. Trusting that she comes first "ALWAYS." Eventually, when he encounters enough women who stop wanting to have sex with him, he may "learn" how to "use" it properly. With a man of his size, comes certain responsibilities. But then again, he was young.... ;-)

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Fri, 06-30-2006 - 11:37pm
You are right and she does admit it.. He was young ,self centered, and irresponsible. Look I have no problem with large penises. I could care less. I can only relate what other women tell me, and what I read. If you are big/deep enough to accomodate a 9" penis good for you , but that is not certainly the norm, based on my good friends experiences and what I read, even here on ivillage.
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Sat, 07-01-2006 - 1:05am

Yes, I know the desire exists for some people of both sexes. Still, ugh.

And while vaginal fisting wouldn't likely be painful, it would still feel a little too close to childbirth for my liking. Not an experience I want to recreate for fun.

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Sat, 07-01-2006 - 8:43am

The point is, Hump, is that you make do with what you have no matter what the size. We do not have the luxury of choosing what size comes with what man. Being with a large man is no different than being with a man with a small penis -- it is what it is. You make the necessary adjustments. It's just that I notice (and I've pointed this out before), that when it's an above-average penis everyone always trys to "undersell" it, but when it's a below-average penis we try and "oversell." ;-) It's the same thing when we speak about beautiful women or gorgeous men....we automatically apply the...."Well....what good are they if they are selfish, conceited, and have a bad personality." as though the two cannot be mutually exclusive.

In other words, your ex would have left him because he was selfish, not because he had a 9" penis. If he had been a caring, responsible lover, it wouldn't have been an issue. And as I said, it shows a lot about a man's character when he takes responsibility for his large penis (he has to be concientious and in control at all times).

It seems some are quick to pick on women who even mention that they like the feeling of a large penis (they must have large stretched out vaginas) or how those who like them for visual or emotional stimulation, must have something wrong with them and that they not "normal;" but yet if a man says that he likes large breasts, it's biology! ;-)

Even if most women couldn't take all of a 9" man, if he's a responsible lover, he wouldn't be any different than a man with 6" penis. In fact, I personally believe that overall personalities are reflected in the bedroom....so it could be an efficient guage of character if a man has an above average penis. I'm sure that your wife's ex was similar outside the bedroom (self-centered and irresponsible), he may have just been able to conceal it better. Had he had an average-sized penis, she may have been with him for months before she found out his true character.

A man with an above-average penis (notice I do not say well-endowed any longer), who takes on full responsiblity and is selfless about it, may be a man of great character because it's an area where self-control is truly a challenge. That's how I see it anyhow. He'd have to be a very strong man.... ;-)




Edited 7/1/2006 9:08 am ET by rain_dancer_iam
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Sat, 07-01-2006 - 11:23am
Hon, you and I agree completely...
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Sat, 07-01-2006 - 10:09pm

Let's interject a dose of reality here. You guys are tossing around numbers like 7", 8", 9" like they are commonplace. Some of the most reliable data on penis size shows that 80% of men are between 5" and 7". Only 5.7% are 7.25" or more. Only 1.2% are 8" or more. Only .5% are 9" or more.

This thread started as a joke but people seem to be taking it seriously. Moreover, I've always heard that hitting the cervix is painful. DW certainly confirms this as her ex was "large" and they had to use certain positions to keep from hurting her.

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Sun, 07-02-2006 - 12:24am

Taoist, by my own experience, those statistics are way off. ;-)

But neither here nor there, what's strange is that the average penis is between 5-7" and the average vagina is between 3-4". More than likely most are hitting or bypassing the cervix anyhow (even if tenting occurs ). The cervix itself has very little nerve endings, but can be more sensitive in some women more than others. Thinking logically -- if we are going to use the law of averages, most penises would be hitting most cervixes.

None of this matters though. The point is, is that there are large penises out there and to any one woman (I am proof), it can be commonplace. Together you work with it...not against it -- simple. ;-)




Edited 7/2/2006 1:05 am ET by rain_dancer_iam
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Sun, 07-02-2006 - 1:14am
Well, I used to do it all the time, but I got lazy....now I just let the gyno do it on my annual visit.....so it's there in my medical chart, which I present to prospective partners, for their approval. That is of course, AFTER I've measured them, to make sure they fit my criteria.
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Sun, 07-02-2006 - 8:41am
tao, your stats are about right. But look at it this way, if there are even 100 million men in the US then ten percent is still about 10 million men who are well above the average.(give or take a couple million..lol)
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Sun, 07-02-2006 - 9:24am

Or one in every 10 men. With women having more partners overall, she's bound to encounter a few. ;-) My stats were more of 1 out of 2.

I am trying to do some research on the net about how the stats were gathered. I haven't found any reputable stats or many at all, other than on some shady sites. I would like to know how the candidates were solicited. Isn't it possible that above-average men and the below-average men may not have volunteered for some obvious and not so obvious reason(s)? Maybe the average men were more curious about the outcome and how they measured up? How many men see other men's erect penises on a daily basis?




Edited 7/2/2006 9:25 am ET by rain_dancer_iam
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