to the guys: why do guys like oral sex

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to the guys: why do guys like oral sex
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Sun, 03-12-2006 - 3:45pm

Why and what does it do for you?

JudithS

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Thu, 03-16-2006 - 3:29pm

In general I would say yes to the stimulation every time. For me it's more like stimulating them on the way down to paradise. But I also stimulate the belly button and many other areas as foreplay on the way to oral sex. I just try for an overall touching and caressing. I would be hard pressed to remember a time when I didn't touch or caress a womens breast during foreplay or intercourse. I do use them during intercourse and I do feel it helps. Do I feel drawn to them? Yes but once again they're not my favorite I enjoy a womans vulva way more than her breasts. Across the board I would say men are drawn to them because some women dress with them showing a little and that teases you. I've yet to see a women dressed with her crotch hanging out and teasing you.

James

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Sat, 03-18-2006 - 10:40am

Well, I can't speak for someone else but I can for myself. I love a woman giving oral sex. There are several reasons. First, it feels great. The warm mouth covering my penis feels great. It feels very different from a vagina but somewhat similar but you can control the tempo and grip you have on a penis. During oral sex, there are numerous things you can do. You can cover the penis and move your head up and down or move your hand up and down while wetting the area with your lips.

The other thing i like and most men like is to watch you do it. It's hot, very sensual. So if you do it, let the guy watch.

I think it seems naughty too and if you are a good lover, you like being a little naughty and men like their women to be naughty in the bedroom.

I'm not sure how old you are or how much experience you've had but my advice is to make sure you do oral sex, especially if your man likes it. Once a man has had a woman that gives oral sex, its hard to enjoy a woman that won't.

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Sat, 03-18-2006 - 10:48am

Hi Ladies:

When my wife performs oral sex on me, she is putting her toal attention on PLEASING me. I, on the other hand, can lay back and JUST enjoy the feeling and TOTAL pleasure.

Mac

 

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Sat, 03-18-2006 - 11:17am

Agreeing with


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Sat, 03-18-2006 - 12:00pm

I myself can't imagine why guys would like oral any differently from why women do. The passionate and tender personal attention, the extreme pleasure from those very sensitive nerve-rich areas, the mere acceptance or even the desire of one's true attractiveness--especially involving the most private area...

Many different reasons from everyone's own personal experiences. Guys just aren't that different from women when it comes to oral, IMHO. If it helps, think about what you as a woman like about receiving oral, and easily go from there when wondering why men like it too. :)

 

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Sat, 03-18-2006 - 2:41pm

emotion: confusion and understanding

I have seen it as why do they like it that is why the needed response of yours. Think in terms of ....

JudithS

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Sat, 03-18-2006 - 2:47pm

Do you feel fulfilled inside after you have had a taste of them.. And is something missing if you haven't had contact with them before and during intercourse?

Do you always have a desire to be connected to them... I hope i am not repeating myself.

Thank you for your responses.

JudithS

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Sat, 03-18-2006 - 2:51pm

Thank you for your responses. (confusion/understanding)

What makes vaginal the paradise? -when you are using the breasts in intercourse -how is it helping -what is it doing for intercourse

JS..

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Registered: 01-12-2006
Mon, 03-20-2006 - 9:41pm

What makes vaginal paradise is that is what I enjoy the most. For some guys it may be breasts or buns for me it's the beautiful vulva.
Using the breasts during intercourse is helpful in many ways. I feel it is just another way of stimulating a womens body while penetrating. It's just makes for an over all better experience as does kissing or rubbing any other places in my opinion.

James

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Tue, 03-21-2006 - 8:39am

sorry am female but have asked my boyfriend the very same question before and also asked what he preferred, intercourse or oral on him? So am going to answer for him. he says he's crazy about both but that sometimes he is really in the mood for head. he says its because it feels like its all about him. he can tell i enjoy it too but he feels that i'm doing this thing purely for him and to bring him so much pleasure. plus it can vary so much. different speed, suck licks deep throating etc. i think it just feels really intense for him. also think theres a bit of a power/porn star thing going on there when they can look down at your head down there trying to please him. funny tho - think he kinds of see him in power but when i do it to him while he's standing up, his legs buckle and he has to hold onto something to keep him stood up - then i feel its me who has the power. ha!

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