Hair???

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Hair???
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Thu, 04-17-2008 - 12:11pm

I'm SO glad this board is here...there's no way I could ask this to anyone IRL...


I'm "hairy" in general. Now, I LIKE the hair on my head; it's long, thick, straight, and reddish-brown. It's the hair down there that bugs the h#$%$#% out of me; there is hair EVERYWHERE. It's like my pubic hair has spread to my groin, inner thighs, and has continued "back there" as well. I've gotten my bikini line waxed, but I don't think I could handle getting the "full deal". And before you think I'm some kind of Yeti, it's not really THAT bad; I just see all these women in bikinis in the summer

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In reply to: drivin
Thu, 04-17-2008 - 12:22pm

"Guys" are all different, and they all like different things.

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Registered: 01-24-2007
In reply to: drivin
Thu, 04-17-2008 - 12:47pm

I never thought I would like it, but it feels so much cleaner, especially when on my period.

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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: drivin
Thu, 04-17-2008 - 2:24pm

Welcome to the board, drivin. Your paradise picture looks very similar to an area near where I live!

Like Sakura said, all guys are different. I keep myself groomed and tidy, but DH prefers that I not shave bare. If you want to just trim the hair, you'll probably find that you get smoother lines in your bathing suit.







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Registered: 03-03-2008
In reply to: drivin
Thu, 04-17-2008 - 4:13pm

Right now I shave.

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Registered: 04-21-2004
In reply to: drivin
Thu, 04-17-2008 - 6:03pm

I mean, I like some hair on a guy, but do guys really like hairless women???


"Guys" like women! Beyond that, we each have our preferences, but I've never heard a guy say it was a deal;breaker either way. Just as an example, my best friend and I have exactly opposite preferences - I prefer a

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Registered: 10-10-2007
In reply to: drivin
Fri, 04-18-2008 - 3:09am

Some guys like hair, some guys don't like hair, some guys like a nice trim, but most guys just like that area in general, regardless of the size of the pelt. Don't go out of your way to do anything that you think some guy might like. Instead, wait until you're comfortable enough with him to ask him straight out what his preference is, then respond accordingly. Most guys will gladly accept whatever is offered without complaint, but it's a pretty sure bet that they do have a preference that they'll tell you when asked. In the meantime, do what you want to do for yourself, since you're the only one who will know what it's like for now.

Regarding preferences, I'm partial to natural. Completely shaved and smooth doesn't provide enough visual stimulation for me. The hair lets me know that there's something interesting there. I also like having something to be able to run my fingers through. When it's shaved, I can't tell where the stomach ends and the naughty bits begin, and there's nothing really left to look at from most angles.

However, the current mainstream preference, going by what's most common in adult videos (Which I only watch for the articles, obviously) seems to be shaved or closely trimmed.

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Registered: 01-28-2004
In reply to: drivin
Fri, 04-18-2008 - 2:40pm
my guy likes it shaved. However he knows my skin is soooo sensitive he understands that i am not able to have it shaved all the time. It does not matter to him. I am happy about that. I would prefer to get it waxed but I am shy to go that far because i could not do it myself. My razor is okay and i deal with that okay.
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Registered: 10-18-2001
In reply to: drivin
Fri, 04-18-2008 - 8:14pm

As the others have said, different guys like different things and that extends to preferences about pubic hair on their women too. I don't think that it's a deal breaker for most guys although having just said that, I think that the majority of guys prefer some sort of grooming.

My wife uses a little battery trimmer, and razor, and usually keeps herself well groomed and quite short. Likewise I do the same. We both find that less hair and more skin leads to the sensations being more intense.

One thing that I will add is while I do like the shaved bare look, I hate the stubble and ingrown hair look. I much prefer trimmed short if shaved bare is only going to lead to red rash and stubble! And you can't avoid stubble easily. Shaved bare is very high maintenance.

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In reply to: drivin
Sat, 04-19-2008 - 11:13am

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