hair down there

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Registered: 01-13-2005
hair down there
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Thu, 01-13-2005 - 11:13pm

I have a slightly embarassing question for you all... Do most girls have butt hair? I know that most guys do, but what about girls?

I have a little bit, and feel really self-conscious about it. I don't want to ride my boyfriend facing his feet because I'm afraid he'll notice it. It's not like it's an easy task to remove it! And I don't feel comfortable asking people I know if it's 'normal' or not to have hair down there. (I can ask my friends just about anything, but that is one question I could never ask :)

I guess I feel like a bit of a freak. But if you guys tell me that most girls do have at least a little bit of hair, then I'll feel better. And if you tell me that they don't, then I'll do something about it :)

Thanks!

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Registered: 01-12-2005
Thu, 01-13-2005 - 11:30pm
No need for embarassment. Most of the women I have been with have some. It was never a turn off for me.
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Registered: 05-27-2004
Thu, 01-13-2005 - 11:59pm

There's no such thing as "normal" when it comes to human bodies. But it's certainly not ABnormal! Most people will have a few hairs there, male or female.

As for your b/f seeing it.....do you HONESTLY believe he's got a magnifying glass and inspecting you during sex? I sincerely believe his mind is on more important things than looking for a stray hair or two.

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Mon, 01-17-2005 - 6:03pm

My wife has a full crop.

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Registered: 11-15-2004
Mon, 01-17-2005 - 6:33pm
Do you mean hair actually on the butt or hair in the butt crack? Maybe some peoples' hair is lighter than others and you can't see it as easily. I don't know.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 01-18-2005 - 10:48am

Yes, most women have a little hair in there and it's really not difficult to remove either. I just shave mine when I trim my pubic hair. IF you do it when you're lying down in the tub, you can spread your cheeks to shave it safely as you're feeling your way. But I wouldn't worry about it since it's normal for it to be there.

IF you're talking about hair on your actual butt cheeks, then either wax it or shave it off.

And believe me, if you're riding your guy backwards, he isn't going to be concentrating on your butt hair!




Edited 1/18/2005 11:03 am ET ET by katmandoo2001
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Registered: 09-20-2004
Tue, 01-18-2005 - 11:13am

My love has a little hair their and it never bothers me.
I just shave it off when I'm shaving her down there and kiss away those razor bumps, usually about every week or so.

Believe me most guys are concentrating on other thing's when down there,
although it's nice not to get your nose tickled
cheers Jacobite

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 01-18-2005 - 11:23am
So, do YOU return the favor and shave yours off as well? LOL!
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Registered: 01-13-2005
Tue, 01-18-2005 - 3:27pm

Thanks for your replies.

For those who weren't sure, I was talking about butt-crack hair. Not actually on the cheeks.

It is true that we have so much fun together, we don't really concentrate on each other's hair situation. But it's still nice to know I'm not the only girl on this planet with a bit of hair there! hehe

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Registered: 09-20-2004
Tue, 01-18-2005 - 4:42pm

Yes I wax my crack, sack and shaft after having a nasty nick with a razor leaving just a moustache leading to jacobs ladder.
Things run much cooler down there, importand when you work in a kitchen at about 38'C.

Unfortunately my love does not return the oral favour- perhaps one day.
cheers Jacobiteone

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 01-18-2005 - 5:22pm

OUCH! I can't get my DH to shave his scrotum, he's afraid of nicking himself, too. But waxing? Double ouch!

Maybe you should give your partner a flavor choice..."chocolate or caramel, tonight, Dear?"

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