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| Mon, 10-09-2006 - 7:02pm |
Hello everyone!
This is a bit of an embarassing question, so please bear with me.
My boyfriend and I will soon start having sex. We've discussed it, and feel we are ready to take that next step. I trust him fully, and I know he loves me, etc. I am a little bit nervous about our first time though. But I definetely 'want' him. My biggest worry though, is that I recently found out he is a 'butt' guy. Meaning he will pay some attention to it. My question is: is hair in the butt crack normal? Do guys, generally speaking, get turned off by it? I know they get rid of that with brazilian waxes, but I don't know if I'd want to do that. I can discuss sex with my friends, but for some reason, I can't bring myself to talk about this topic out loud!
Not only is he a butt guy, but I have always been interested in the reverse cowgirl position. But have always been 'scared' of it, as it would involve a guy looking at me from behind from pretty close.
So yeah, my question is, is a little bit of butt crack hair normal in girls? Is it a big turn off? There seems to be so little information about it out there.
Thank you in advance!

There's very little information out there about it because it's natural, normal, and inconsequential!
NO man is going to "inspect" your body looking for minute "flaws"....not when he's busy doing his thing, and hopefully doing YOUR thing. NO one has a perfect body, and no man cares about things like that.....he's concentrating on far more important things! I don't know what you mean by a "butt man"....but it's very doubtful that he's going to have his face so close that he'll be able to see a few fine hairs.
First time sex is hard enough without worrying about things like that. Don't worry, he'll love all of you, butt hair and all. If he doesn't....then HE has a problem.
You are right, although not a virgin, I am not very experienced, sexually, at all. From this probably stems my paranoia.
Thank you everyone for your reassuring replies.