hand cuffs

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hand cuffs
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Thu, 06-17-2004 - 12:15pm
Hey everyone

Okay I have a question...I bought my boyfriend handcuffs for our anniversary...and I was wondering has anyone on here used handcuffs before and what works best when using hand cuffs...?

Thanks

Jenn

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Registered: 05-14-2004
In reply to: poolgurl29
Thu, 06-17-2004 - 2:28pm
Did you buy one set of handcuffs or two? I ask because this can make a difference as to what you can do and how spread out you would want his hands to be. Also, i think two is better becuase if they are the play ones that you can use a key OR flip a little lever to open them, he will probably flip the lever if temptation gets the better of him. Better to separate his hands so he can't fool around as much. If you only got one set and it's too late to get a second, find an old handkerchief or bandanna and tie his other hand down that way. Maybe even blindfold him for a while to make the session more intense. You can tease him in ways that he wouldn't let you because he would jerk away but if he is laying down, it would be harder to do that without the help of hands. I don't know if you are wanting ideas or what...I'll post back once I know better the route of your question and what you are wanting to know...

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Registered: 11-12-2003
In reply to: poolgurl29
Thu, 06-17-2004 - 2:47pm
hi Jenn...i experimented with handcuffs and found them to be a bore...i prefer for my lover and i to have full use of our hands to touch and caress and fondle each other... just my $.02.

honey

    

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Registered: 06-06-2004
In reply to: poolgurl29
Thu, 06-17-2004 - 3:17pm
unfortunately i did only buy one set...which seems kind of useless really..now that you mention it...lol...any tips or idea would be great...basically I just want to make this weekend VERY memorable!!


xox

Jenn

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Registered: 05-14-2004
In reply to: poolgurl29
Thu, 06-17-2004 - 3:38pm
Ok, well this is what I would do: If you can't get out to buy another set, be creative. Find another way to restrict his other hand away from the cuffed one, like I said, using an old handkerchief or bandanna or even an old, thin towel. Totally tease him in every way possible. Strip down in front of him VERY SLOWLY, so that he can take in every inch of you. Oh, and make sure he is either naked when you tie him down or at least doesn't have a shirt on. Kinda hard to loose the shirt when you can't get it off of tied up hands. I don't know how kinky you want to get but maybe you could even put on a whipped cream bikini (leaving the room to do it while he is helpless) and let him lick it off. It will drive him nuts knowing that him touching you is completely in your control. Or, you can slowly and sensually run your hands all over his body, taking extra time stroking all of his sweet spots and making him go wild. The possibilies are endless. And with him tied up, there is nothing he can do about it. I don't think I can go too much further into explaining as is will probably violate the TOS, but I hope this gives you a start. Just let your imagination run wild!!
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Registered: 04-13-2004
In reply to: poolgurl29
Mon, 06-21-2004 - 1:26pm
We have handcuffs with fur around them. My hubby gave them to me when we were dating. They were kinda fun. If R is going to restrain me though, he only ties my legs to the bed posts and keeps my hands free. Or sometimes just one hand free so I can touch him where he wants me to.
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Registered: 06-06-2004
In reply to: poolgurl29
Mon, 06-21-2004 - 1:36pm
Well, lets just say they were a big hit! He loved them, and while he did like being "tied" up he more enjoyed tying me up and teasing me..which I have to say I enjoyed very much! And one set worked out great so that wasn't a problem either! Thanks to everyone who gave me ideas!

xox

Jenn

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Registered: 05-14-2004
In reply to: poolgurl29
Mon, 06-21-2004 - 2:44pm
I'm glad you had such a great weekend and that things turned out so great. Yeah, one set can definately be plenty, like I said, two is just better if you want the hands to be further apart. Some men can handle knowing that they can free themselves but don't to enjoy the fun of it all. With JT though, I have to separate his hands otherwise he's bad and lets himself loose...grrrr! LOL
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Registered: 01-25-2004
In reply to: poolgurl29
Mon, 06-21-2004 - 5:45pm
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I am just wondering what kind of things you were referring to here that will still be pleasurable for him but that he would jerk away from if he could??

Just curious. Thanks!

Angel

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Registered: 06-21-2004
In reply to: poolgurl29
Tue, 06-22-2004 - 1:31am
Actually, my husband bought me handcuffs for our two year anniversary. What I have experienced is men like to be surprised. If you cuff him up, maybe try to blindfold him also. Being blindfolded gives a sense of surprise. Lets say that you start kissing his neck, then go to a place he won't expect. Couples get used to the order in which they do things sexually. So, like I said start somewhere he wouldn't expect, then go to a different area. Keep varying the places but don't stay to long, keep him guessing. Even when you go for his private area, quickly go back to his neck or wherever you chose. I am sure that he will be begging for you to climb aboard. Also, the returned favor is quite nice. Enjoy!
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Registered: 06-06-2004
In reply to: poolgurl29
Tue, 06-22-2004 - 8:24am
that sounds like a good idea! I will have to do that the next time I go visit him! Which unfortunately won't be for awhile...:-(, I didn't realize that living 5 hours apart really would be this hard!

Jenn

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