hand job

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Registered: 08-02-2004
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Tue, 06-12-2007 - 1:50am

My wife recently underwent a procedure that is temporarily leaving her without the ability to have intercourse. She recently gave me a handjob to take care of my sexual needs. Even thugh, it wasn't the same as our usual sex, it was nice.

I'm curious now, how often women give their men hand jobs until they orgasm? Do you do it only on certain occassions? On periods?

Guy...how do you like it?

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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: manunit
Tue, 06-12-2007 - 7:39am
There are times I give my DH a hand job to completion, but there's not a particular event that causes it. It offers a nice, unexpected variety. I'm too short to have sex in the shower with him, so on occasion, I will give him a soapy hand job there. It's also nice to be able to watch him while giving him a hand job.


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Registered: 10-15-2006
In reply to: manunit
Tue, 06-12-2007 - 7:43am

I've done this for DH but not because I was out of commision at the time.


I think it's playful and fun to do. I love the look on his face when I suggest one.

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Mrs P

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Registered: 01-14-2005
In reply to: manunit
Tue, 06-12-2007 - 11:44am
DW will do this occasionally. Usually happens after she's had her O, she'll tell me to roll on my back rest against the pillows. She makes and keeps eye contact until she finishes. I really enjoy them!
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Registered: 06-10-2007
In reply to: manunit
Tue, 06-12-2007 - 6:40pm

I do them when he get horny when were out. Almost everytime we go to the movies or if the place we go out to eat is very slow and the lights are down. Otherwise I give him a bj. He takes a lot longer to get off with just a handjob.

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Registered: 08-02-2004
In reply to: manunit
Wed, 06-13-2007 - 1:53am
I'll keep my eye out for you when I got to the movies.
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Registered: 08-02-2004
In reply to: manunit
Wed, 06-13-2007 - 1:54am
She did this once in the shower too. I've asked for another one but haven't received it yet. :(
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Registered: 05-11-2007
In reply to: manunit
Wed, 06-13-2007 - 8:41am

Occasionally, after an especially active weekend or day, I'll give my SO a full body massage. And I do mean full body :). It is great when I tell him to turn over on his back and he's almost asleep from the back massage to work my way there and then watch his face when I take him the rest of the home. This gives me and my SO a great emotional connection and I enjoy doing it. Of course when he does go off I make sure to catch it (in my mouth) so he can go right to sleep and doesn't have to get up to clean up. :)

So yes its something I love to do.

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Registered: 05-22-2007
In reply to: manunit
Wed, 06-13-2007 - 8:06pm

Call me weird, maybe . . . but I've always found hand jobs to be very enjoyable. If a woman really enjoys doing it, and knows what she's doing, I think she can control things at least as well as with oral sex, and can really get me going by bringing me to the brink and then backing off . . . sometimes several times.

anyway . . . that's my two-cents. ;)