a Handful of Techniques
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a Handful of Techniques
| Wed, 04-04-2007 - 10:28am |
Masturbation, hand jobs, finger play it's all here. Share your favorite techniques and see what others prefer.
- What's your first thought about hands? Do you prefer light, gentle touching; strong, firm stroking; a constant, repetitive movement; etc.?
- How often do you orgasm while hands are being used (yours or your partners)?
- Are you male or female? How do you best use your hands on yourself?
- What does your partner do with his/her hands on your body that gets you every time?
- Do you watch your partner masturbate? Is there a technique that you have learned by watching?
- What do you do for your partner (with your hands) that just drives 'em wild?




- What's your first thought about hands? Do you prefer light, gentle touching; strong, firm stroking; a constant, repetitive movement; etc.? I prefer light, gentle touching on my non-sexual erogenous zones, e.g. neck, face, middle back, thighs, hands. I prefer a more solid stroke on my nipples and my clit.
- How often do you orgasm while hands are being used (yours or your partners)? 100% my hands; 80% hubby's
- Are you male or female? How do you best use your hands on yourself? female; I like to touch myself in places that my husband doesn't know are my erogenous zones or places he doesn't take the time to touch after many years of marriage :), e.g. the side of my ribs, top of my butt-crack, lower back, feet, etc.
- What does your partner do with his/her hands on your body that gets you every time? There's a sensitive spot in the center of my spine that makes me ooh and aah. In more intimate places, I like him to rest the pad of his finger on my anus while he's stroking my clit. I also like 1 finger inside my vagina during clitoral stimulation. I also love it when he lets me suck one of his fingers into my mouth.
- Do you watch your partner masturbate? Is there a technique that you have learned by watching? He'll only let me watch if I ask (more like beg), but I can tell his performance isn't as good as it would be if he were alone. He sort of half-a$$es it for my benefit, I think. The thing I did learn is that his penis is familiar with his own right hand on himself. So, if I'm going to give him a hand-job and if we are lying in bed, then I prefer to lie next to him and reach over him so that my hand is in the same position, grip-wise to his own hand. Straddling him and giving him a hand job isn't as good because my hand in the wrong direction/orientation. Make sense?
- What do you do for your partner (with your hands) that just drives 'em wild?
Nothing. My husband has skin allergies and sensitive skin and doesn't like a lot of non-genital touching....so he's no fun. His nipples (my 2nd favorite part of a man) are off limits because he's too sensitive. And he doesn't like a lot of hand foreplay. It's so sad :( because I love touching him.
Welcome to the Let's Talk about Sex board Heidi -- it's nice to have you here!
Misty
I like hands that look strong. I like light gentle touching when being teased or when touching myself, but most of the time I like a mix of firm rubbing with repetitive motion.
- How often do you orgasm while hands are being used (yours or your partners)?
Rarely or never with my hands, but always with his fingers.
- Are you male or female? How do you best use your hands on yourself?
I am female. My hands are best used on myself when I am with DH. When he is performing oral, I often touch various parts of my upper body very lightly, or perhaps my breasts a bit more firmly.
- What does your partner do with his/her hands on your body that gets you every time?
Everything! I can't think of anything that he does with his hands that doesn't get me ;-) My favorites are for him to either touch my clitoris or breasts during intercourse.
- Do you watch your partner masturbate? Is there a technique that you have learned by watching?
Not very much or very often with DH, but I have watched past lovers masturbate. I would love to watch DH, and this is something that we are planning to do together -- if I can ever get comfortable using my fingers on my own body. So, no, I haven't learned anything by watching him.
- What do you do for your partner (with your hands) that just drives 'em wild?
He likes to have his nipples played with during intercourse. If he's getting close to orgasm and I squeeze his nipples, it's all over ;-)
- What's your first thought about hands? Do you prefer light, gentle touching; strong, firm stroking; a constant, repetitive movement; etc.?---light gentle touching
- How often do you orgasm while hands are being used (yours or your partners)?---never
- Are you male or female? How do you best use your hands on yourself?---female, I can't O with my hands but when hubby is giving oral or we're having IC I like to play with my breasts
- What does your partner do with his/her hands on your body that gets you every time?---when he just touches me.
- Do you watch your partner masturbate? Is there a technique that you have learned by watching?---Have never seen him masturbate
- What do you do for your partner (with your hands) that just drives 'em wild?---If I touch his nipples he gets really turned on