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Registered: 05-20-2007
HANDy work!
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Wed, 07-25-2007 - 12:52am

Can one be too TOUCHy, RUBy, FEELy in the bedroom?

Personally, I am very hands (and feet….LOL) on in private,
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Always fondling the boys when we are laying next to each other,
Always reaching out for a spontaneous kiss or suck
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he never has complained, but I’m wondering if it can be overbearing at times?
Do men ever just want their boys left alone?

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Registered: 12-20-2004
In reply to: passionplus
Wed, 07-25-2007 - 8:44am
Sounds like you are doing what most men crave.
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Registered: 07-25-2007
In reply to: passionplus
Wed, 07-25-2007 - 8:58am
It's been my experience that you can never be too "touchy, ruby, feely" in the bedroom. Men, or atleast my DH, likes what he calls "cuddling or cuddle time". Even if it leads no were else but touching, feeling, and rubbing. Like he say's sometimes the boy's gt lonely.And you can't forget about the boys. If you were being to overbearing your guy would tell you.
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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: passionplus
Wed, 07-25-2007 - 9:12am
I know that sometimes I get playful and silly with DH. At those times, he has to be on guard, and I know that I can't always play in such a way -- it would get old. As far as caressing and fondling him during snuggle time, I don't think that would ever get to be too much for him.


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Registered: 12-12-2006
In reply to: passionplus
Wed, 07-25-2007 - 10:31am

There are some men who love it, and some who don't. I was married to one who didn't want to be touched......and it's frustrating.

If he was one who didn't like it, I'm sure you'd hear about it, loud and clear!

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Registered: 02-17-2007
In reply to: passionplus
Wed, 07-25-2007 - 7:17pm
I am very touchy feely like that and have had guys push my hands away. That's usually because until I fall asleep, I'm always wanting to touch him. If he's already falling asleep, I imagine it's annoying. I've had to learn to stop some.