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"hard" to talk about
| Sun, 01-28-2007 - 10:24am |
I've been with my man over two years and our sex life has always been exciting, even kinky at times. My problem is that I feel inadequate that he doesn't get hard easily at all. Other men I've been with usually get hard by visual, or a little foreplay, sometimes just kissing. I seem to always have to give him oral sex for him to have an erection. Not that I mind it, I love to, but once in awhile it would be nice to not have to work so hard for it, for him to just get excited by normal means. It makes me feel that I am not enough for him, or that I am not desirable. We have talked about it and he says he's always been this way, that I do turn him on, that's just how he's wired. Is this possible? Help please!

Of course it's possible and if that's the way he's always been then that's the way he is.