Hard time with small penis!
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Hard time with small penis!
| Thu, 12-02-2004 - 3:36pm |
Hi everyone, how do you all feel about penis size? The last two guys I dated had HUGE penises, and now I'm dating a man I absolutely adore who has a small one. I can't help it, but sometimes I don't even feel it! It's not tiny, maybe 5.5-6 inches? IS there a way to get over penis size and make it pleasurable? Do certain positions allow you to feel it more? Do any of you have problems with this or does penis size not matter? Thanks!

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Sorry, but this is a bit funny because there are currently two debates on other topics being discussed to the death about this exact subject. Have a look at "Extra Large Penis Issues" under the Health heading and "Asian penis size" under this heading.
5.5-6" is about average penis size so it's not that he's particularly small. You must have just been with some large guys.
Some positions like doggie and girl-on-top can provide deeper penetration. With some practice a grinding movement in positions like missionary can press your pubic areas together and stimulate your clitoris more too. Since the vagina doesn't have a lot of sensation and your clitoris does, you may find that grinding movements rather than your basic in and out thrusting will provide a lot of stimulation.
I think that you can probably have very enjoyable sex, and it may well end up being better sex than before, it's just that you will have to get used to the smaller size and change how you do it slightly. Of course, you are unlikely to be able to get that 'filled' or stretched feeling the same as before.
As you probably know penis size is a controversial and sensitive issue for most men and you can easily hurt a man's feelings and give him feelings of inadequacy by talking about larger penises. He is stuck with what he has got and he can't do anything about it. Talking about larger penises may be detrimental and cause more problems in the relationship, so you've got to be careful how you approach the issue.
sounds like his is about the same size as my DH.
==Hot Potato
Practice your Kegels. This will make sex much better for both of you.
taoist
Hi sunjoy. I'm going to copy and paste part of what I reported earlier regarding this subject. Please take the time to read up on the articles, they just may help. For many couples in your situation, its really better than nothing and has proven to be quite fun.
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There are certain positions that are perfectly designed for "a tighter fit" even when, or especially when, it involves a size that is smaller than what you've enjoyed before. ALSO keep in mind that certain positions are simply designed to help him stimulate your g-spot more as well, of how snug the fit is compared to before.
Here's some ideas that you REALLY should look into, they've been reported to be way too much fun and helpful by so many so far:
10 Hot New Positions
http://magazines.ivillage.com/cosmopolitan/sex/no/articles/0,,166928_633458,00.html
5 Pleasure-Maxing Positions
http://magazines.ivillage.com/cosmopolitan/sex/no/articles/0,,166928_547497,00.html
Size Matters: Two Solutions for Small Situations
http://www.ivillage.com/relationships/experts/sexpro/qas/0,,166928_251416,00.html
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Your boyfriend is not small. He's average. And you should be able to feel an average penis easily.
It sounds to me like the problem is that you have a loose vagina. Taoist suggest kegels - probably a good place to start.
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