Hard time with small penis!

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Registered: 11-30-2004
Hard time with small penis!
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Thu, 12-02-2004 - 3:36pm
Hi everyone, how do you all feel about penis size? The last two guys I dated had HUGE penises, and now I'm dating a man I absolutely adore who has a small one. I can't help it, but sometimes I don't even feel it! It's not tiny, maybe 5.5-6 inches? IS there a way to get over penis size and make it pleasurable? Do certain positions allow you to feel it more? Do any of you have problems with this or does penis size not matter? Thanks!

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Registered: 05-18-2003
Sat, 12-04-2004 - 8:18am
I have had the same issue for several months. I was married to a man with a small penis (about 4.5 to 5 inches) and until we divorced and I had sex with a much larger man (8 to 9 inches), I thought I had reached my highest orgasim. There were positions that brought me to a much higher level of orgasim that I couldn't achieve with my x. Although the sex was good, it wasn't as totally satisfying as when I was able to enjoy a variety of positions. Now the man I am with is fairly large and we make love in a variety of positions during one love making session. Since being with a larger man and having the opportunity to experience orgasms in multiple positions, the total sexual experience is much greater to me and I find myself having 3 and 4 orgasms per encounter, instead of just one. I can't speak for anyone else, but that does make a "big" difference to me (no pun intended.)
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Registered: 02-15-2004
Sat, 12-04-2004 - 10:00pm
thtas interesting the average guy is 5-6 inches...i don't knwo why that would cause a problem try some kegals
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Registered: 10-18-2001
Sat, 12-04-2004 - 10:10pm

>>But really, would you much rather have an inch you can't fit, or an inch you can't reach?<<

LOL! Tough decision. I would have probably taken the inch in my younger days, but provided my penis is a good fit, I'd rather be able to fit right inside and thrust hard than have my partner complain that it doesn't fit, or cause her pain as I try to thrust deeply, and get frustrated because I can't fit in snuggly!

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Registered: 12-24-2003
Mon, 12-06-2004 - 12:06am

>>...I'd rather be able to fit right inside and thrust hard...<<

Good point. But it is a male ego thing (ok, my ego thing maybe) to know I am not leaving any spots untouched.

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anonymous user
Mon, 12-06-2004 - 8:07am
most women cant feel much way up in there anyway.In a survey about penises, 90% of women said girth was more important.

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