Has your boyfriend/husband ever taken...

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Registered: 01-01-2006
Has your boyfriend/husband ever taken...
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Fri, 09-29-2006 - 8:53am

Has your boyfriend/husband ever taken nude photographs of you? Do you regret it?



  • No, I won't do that.
  • No, but I would if he asked.
  • Yes, I was only topless, but I still regret it.
  • Yes, I was only topless, and I don't regret it.
  • Yes, I was completely nude and didn't spread my legs, but I still regret it.
  • Yes, I was completely nude and didn't spread my legs, and I don't regret it.
  • Yes, I was completely nude and spread my legs, and I regret it.
  • Yes, I was completely nude and spread my legs, but I don't regret it.


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Registered: 05-09-2006
Sat, 12-02-2006 - 5:23pm
I voted "Yes, I was completely nude and spread my legs, and I regret it." I did it for a boyfriend in college who turned out to be a jerk. He showed the pictures to some of his friends and wouldn't give me back the photos when I broke up with him. I still wonder if those pictures are circulating through the internet somewhere!
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Registered: 05-25-2006
Mon, 12-25-2006 - 8:59am
My boyfriend loves my breasts (I'm a bigger woman, so they're a large size). I've let him take pictures of them and never regretted it, but I've also taken pics of them myself with my cell phone and sent them to his cell phone, inspiring the best night of my life.
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Registered: 11-22-2004
Mon, 12-25-2006 - 6:55pm
Yeah, it is a bit of a nightmare to think about if my ex-bf ever put them out on the internet or something. He took lots of pics and even a VCR video of bjs, deepthroating, intercourse and facials and i'm easily recognizable. I don't think he'd ever violate my privacy, he's really normal, but still it freaks me out to think about it.
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Registered: 10-18-2001
Tue, 12-26-2006 - 1:46pm

Yes, I've taken photos of my (now) wife with her legs spread, BJ's and intercourse and masturbating. Mind you, she's taken photos of me too and even has a couple of me ejaculating so I guess that the stakes are pretty even.

We've even made a couple of videos and with some editing it's quite a "professional" little movie we have on DVD now.

If the roles were reversed and I was female with a b/f that wanted to take photos of me, I'd be fairly careful. I'd make sure that it was a very good, solid relationship with long term prospects and I'd start the ball rolling by taking a few photos of him first. If you were at all uncertain of the long-term prospects for the photos I'm sure that taking a few of him and then stashing the photos (or the camera's memory card for the less technically inclined) would be reasonable insurance and acceptable to many guys if it meant that they could then take the photos that they wanted.

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Registered: 07-16-2004
Thu, 12-28-2006 - 2:05am

Hi There

Your home vids sounds great. Has anyone ever seen them by mistake, perhaps your kids or friends or family?

Sammy

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Registered: 07-17-2006
Thu, 12-28-2006 - 2:55pm
I've allowed several times pics of me nude & preforming fellatio.
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Registered: 10-18-2001
Thu, 12-28-2006 - 6:58pm

>>Has anyone ever seen them by mistake, perhaps your kids or friends or family?<<

No. Don't have kids at this point so that's not a problem at this point in time. We don't leave vids or pictures out for public display.

Everything is on password-protected DVD and is kept tucked away in a bedside cabinet at this point along with the toys. If someone wanted to see them then they'd have to be looking for them - and if they're looking for them then they'd have a pretty good idea of what they were going to be seeing. If they know what they are going to be seeing then watching them wouldn't be an "accident", would it? And the passwords would slow them down a little too. If I thought that I was going to have a problem they would be locked up in the cabinet too.

I don't believe that I have any friends or family (or even nieces and nephews) that would watch them and then do something devious with them. Nor am I high-profile enough to have my life ruined if anything was found and published in any way.

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Registered: 08-16-2006
Fri, 12-29-2006 - 5:01pm
Dh has a photo album of pics of me that he keeps locked away. I trust that he wouldn't do anything with the photos without my consent and if I ever wanted to get rid of them I know where the key is...
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