Have not seen her in a long time

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Registered: 07-27-2006
Have not seen her in a long time
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Mon, 08-07-2006 - 2:18pm
My GF who I have been dating for a year and a half now is coming to see me this weekend. Next week we will be going to school together. There is about 6 hour time deference between us. We haven’t seen each other in well over a month. I do not have as much experience as she does. I was looking for some things that could help me out little tricks or techniques that you women have found you liked that would maybe work for me. It just has been so long I want to try and blow her mind.
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Registered: 07-26-2005
Mon, 08-07-2006 - 3:39pm

If you haven't seen her in a month, she'll be very happy to see you....and you don't have to do anything special but show her how much you've missed her.

Forget about experience......feelings count for a lot more than experience......
And "numbers" don't mean anything.....usually it's the women who are worried that they're not as experienced as the guy....and it's just plain silly. If you care about someone, you'll know what to do and how to do it.

I was married for 20 years, and I guess you'd think I was "experienced"...but I wasn't...because my ex husband knew NOTHING about sex.... I learned what good sex was after I was divorced, not in the 20 years I was married!

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Registered: 07-27-2006
Mon, 08-07-2006 - 4:07pm
well what things happened in order for you to experience good sex?
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Registered: 07-26-2005
Tue, 08-08-2006 - 12:34am
ALL sex between two loving people is good sex. If you haven't seen each other in a while, it's even better. I don't understand "mind blowing".....it should always be that way.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 08-08-2006 - 1:12am
Just BE there for her and you'll blow her mind. It's very nice that you want sex to be extra special for her but being glad to see her and letting her know it every way you can will be enough. Don't overthink this or it won't be spontaneous and sincere. It will be a performance.