Have you ever done this - (kinky)??

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Have you ever done this - (kinky)??
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Mon, 09-27-2004 - 1:06am
Hi all Girls and Boys,

I am just curios.

Have you ever posted your nude (or half nude) photo on web?

sometimes I see some websites claiming to have "normal" people posting their nude photos. It makes me feel kinky to think about it though I have not done it. Right now I don't feel like doing anything like that.

If you've done that, what made you do it? (and what effect it did have on you!!).

If not would you do it?

And what do you think about this whole thing?

(I am not talking about hardcore porn sites and nudist sites)


Id

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Edited 9/28/2004 8:29 pm ET ET by mr_id

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Registered: 12-24-2003
Tue, 10-05-2004 - 8:42am
>>But doesn't it have a bearing on cunnilingus?<<

As far as my sexual stimulation is concerned? I suppose, but only in an aesthetic way. Similarly, a great work of art, a good workout, or a well written article can be sexually stimulating.

Cunnilingus doesn't have any direct sexual sensations though (unless it's 69, but that's different). Of course having a great woman behind the vagina is far more important, and probably accounts for a lot of the sexual stimulation.

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Registered: 08-12-2004
Tue, 10-05-2004 - 9:28am
I agree with you.

I guess I'm insecure about my manhood.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 10-05-2004 - 6:22pm
Uh...I thought we WERE talking about aesthetics though. I mean, you've posted a PICTURE of your penis online so only it's appearance is being rated, correct? And unless you hand out surveys at the end of each sex session with a lover, that's all you can expect to get.

I think how an erection feels to me is so much important than how it appears. Looks can be deceiving and if the guy is great all around, his size matters even less. Hence, the "I'm sure it's fine, don't worry about it" advice.

So, would you be less likely to go down on a woman whose vulva was less than attractive to you?




Edited 10/5/2004 6:36 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001

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Wed, 10-06-2004 - 1:53am
>>I think how an erection feels to me is so much important than how it appears. <<

I guess that's why we're not talking on the same wavelength. I assume how my erect penis is being rated is how it's imagined it would feel *based* on how it looks. I guess if someone wants to rate it on "aesthetics" they're more than welcome to. Hell, I may be fooling myself and no one is rating it on how they think it would feel inside them.

My wife points out once in a while the penises that she thinks "looks" good. Whenever I ask her why she thinks it looks good, she answers based on how she thinks they would feel inside her.

>>So, would you be less likely to go down on a woman whose vulva was less than attractive to you?<<

Yes.

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Registered: 05-05-2003
Wed, 10-06-2004 - 9:42am
I got my nipples pierced about 6 weeks ago and I submitted pics of them to one of my fav pierceing sites yea it kind of is a rush to see my half naked body on the net
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 10-06-2004 - 12:42pm
IMO, you can have no idea how a penis will feel inside you just from appearance only! How could you?

Just because a penis is thick, long, etc. doesn't mean that the man it's attached to has a clue about how to use it to please a woman. I've heard plenty of stories from women who've had sex with men with very large erections who were terrible in bed. You simply cannot judge a "book by it's cover."

So, basically, you're getting nothing more than guesses from those rating your picture and those are no more valid than what you get here.

And you're saying that even if that "less than attractive" vulva was attached to a really great lady, you wouldn't go down on her? What happened to a great personality being the deciding factor in sex?


Edited 10/6/2004 1:11 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001

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Registered: 02-15-2004
Wed, 10-06-2004 - 1:38pm
>>>>>>>>>>>For some reason, even if iVillage's feedback system leaves everyone anonymous, it still feels like people try pussyfooting around the issues like they really don't want to hurt anyone's feelings.<<<<<<<<<

ivillage has a photo rating/feedback system?? where is this board located muttley???

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Registered: 12-24-2003
Thu, 10-07-2004 - 12:50am
>>IMO, you can have no idea how a penis will feel inside you just from appearance only! How could you?<<

I'm not a woman, so I wouldn't know. I'm just going by what all the women I've spoken to about dicks say. Yes, *all* the women I've spoken to about dicks have been fairly knowledgable about look vs. feel. It could be a generational or an experience thing. I've noticed the most open and curious women seem to be younger than me, about the mid-twenties to early thirties crowd.

>>I've heard plenty of stories from women who've had sex with men with very large erections who were terrible in bed.<<

Ever heard the term, "All things being equal..."? If you were given a chance to rate something based on the limited amount of knowledge (ie a picture), would you ask, "But, how's his personality?"

>>So, basically, you're getting nothing more than guesses from those rating your picture and those are no more valid than what you get here.<<

I'm sorry, are you trying to make a point? I'm not looking for validity, I'm looking at doing something I've never done before, post a picture of my dick for all to see. The subject of this thread was, "Have you ever done this - (kinky)??" And to it I replied, "Why yes!"

Besides, your replies are exactly my point. You see something different, you see something you may be jealous of. Instead of recognizing that and act out of curiosity, you judge, get defensive, make conclusions and dismiss it.

>>What happened to a great personality being the deciding factor in sex? <<

A great personality is the deciding factor in a relationship. Sex need not be more than two people acting out a physical attraction. Does everything out of your jusrisdiction of proper behavior have to be wrong?

Add something kinky to this thread. Have you ever posed nude? If not, what is your function in this thread?

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Registered: 12-24-2003
Thu, 10-07-2004 - 1:30am
The feedback system here meaning the polls and the forums in general.

The photorating/feedback system I was talking about was in ratemyschlong.com, which I might add is where I've got my picture.

Odd that none of the ladies are curious enough to ask where in ratemyschlong it is.

My username there is muttley and the site has a search feature.

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Thu, 10-07-2004 - 1:52am
Sorry but you're the one who seemed to confuse aesthetics with performance in your replies though. After all, a schlong is a schlong is a schlong, the only factor that truly distinguishes one from the other is the man it's attached to. So, why would I want to rate a schlong by it's appearance only?

I simply pointed out that, TO ME, asking a stranger to rate your penis is NOT the same as simply posting a picture for exhibitionistic thrills. Something else is going on there.

And it seemed, once again, TO ME, that one would be either hoping to get positive feedback for narcissistic or insecurity reasons. That's my take on it. It's certainly not important that we agree on the subject but I'm neither "dismissive or defensive" about it, merely curious as to what motivates someone to do it.

It's a well-known fact that many men are insecure when it comes to size so asking why you did it, with the possibility of ridicule or negative feedback....makes it a legitimate question.

And "jealous?" Of what? Why would I be jealous of your posting your erection online? LOL! That's not something I'm intimidated by nor curious about in the least. Anyone with a camera can post an anonymous picture. Courage is hardly needed.

And yes, I have posed nude before but for my DH's eyes only. And his opinion is the only one I care about and he feels the same. IF that's not "open-minded and curious" enough, in your opinion, then so be it. I'm simply not the exhibitionistic type...sue me.


Edited 10/7/2004 2:12 am ET ET by katmandoo2001