Have you ever had a situation like this?

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Registered: 08-02-2004
Have you ever had a situation like this?
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Wed, 07-12-2006 - 9:16am

Before going away to college one year, I was working at a nice hotel in a midwest town. I had been out of school for a year going to a junior college but now it was time for me to venture away from home. I had been working the night shift as a bellman so my time for a social life was pretty nil. At the time, it was the best I could do.

A buddy of mine had got me the job because he was leaving that job and taking a job at the front desk. When I told everyone I knew I was leaving, people understood. Dennis, my good friend told me a girl at the front desk wanted to go out with me. I barely knew the girl but he insisted she was intereted in going out. I was surprised since she had never acted like it before but I didn't see her that much since she was on a different shift. Dennis explained that girls sometimes want to have sex with a guy leaving town because that can have wild sex or a lot of sex without the trappings of a relationship. Dennis acted as the pimp setting this girl and me up. We went to a party and then back to her place. We had fun and sure enough we had sex on the first date. Dennis was absolutely right. She just wanted to have sex and while I think she liked me, he was right on about being able to have sex and then knowing in a couple of weeks each of us could just move on.

Has anyone had an experience like that? Were you the girl or woman initiating some sex before a guy leaves or were you the guy getting some from a woman knowing you are leaving.?

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Wed, 07-12-2006 - 11:30am

Nope, one night stands or


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