have you ever spanked a vagina?

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have you ever spanked a vagina?
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Tue, 03-07-2006 - 5:34pm

my bf likes to spank my vagina/ tap it (not very hard or anything, just a pat) but im curious, if this is a usual practise ? (i doubt its a fetish) and if there are other guys out there who do this, how does that get you aroused (like is it a BDSM type of thing or what?)lol

thanks

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Tue, 03-07-2006 - 6:11pm
I can honestly say that I've never heard of a guy doing this before. A butt tap or pat, maybe, but not there. Can't see what HE would get out of it either. Maybe he thinks that it stimulates you somehow.
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Tue, 03-07-2006 - 8:44pm

There are times after I have an orgasm that Dh does that, like you said nothing hard, just tapping sort of, nothing that hurts.


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Tue, 03-07-2006 - 9:15pm
I've actually seen that a number of times in porn videos. The interesting thing is that it's always done by one woman to another woman, never by a man. Maybe your BF saw it in a porn video and thought "Since a woman is doing that to another woman, then women must like it. Maybe my GF would like that." I mean, he must have gotten the idea from somewhere.
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Tue, 03-07-2006 - 11:50pm

He had to learn that somewhere. Maybe one of his former g/f's liked it, and like most men, he thinks that all women like it. Maybe, as Rice said, he saw it in a porn flick. Also, guys talk to each other, and tell them what some woman loved, and other guys will think that all women love it.

If you like it, great. If you don't, tell him so.

My ex husband was young and inexperienced (as was I) and he worked with older men. All of a sudden one night he started slobbering all over my ears. It was gross. I asked him why he did that, and he said that a guy at work told him that women LOVE that. I told him I didn't LIKE it, and he acted like there was something wrong with ME!

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Wed, 03-08-2006 - 12:20am
LOL!
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Wed, 03-08-2006 - 8:53am
hahahaha yea thanks, just wanted to see if this was like some strange fetish going around... not that it bothers me :)
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Wed, 03-08-2006 - 5:09pm
Sometimes I'll pat my partner's vagina as part of foreplay. I'm certainly not spanking, just a light regular persistant tap-tap-tap rhythm with two or three fingers. It can get her very aroused if continued for several minutes at the same tempo. I have no idea where I got that idea. Maybe I thought of it myself, maybe I read it somewhere? I'm pretty sure that I'm never seen it in any porn videos though.
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Wed, 03-08-2006 - 10:43pm
Dakine, I always thought you were a woman who liked to have her ears slobbered. You think you know someone and then you find out you really don't !!
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Wed, 03-08-2006 - 11:52pm

LOL...I thought I was the only woman alive that didn't find ear play exciting!! If my ears are never kissed or licked again as long as I live...I wouldn't even notice.
The ironic thing is my SO loves to have his earlobes sucked on. I enjoy that doing that to him (cuz it makes him moan), but it would never bring the same response in me.

To the OP, I have seen that in porn videos as well. Not really a spank but more like a pat.

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Registered: 07-26-2005
Thu, 03-09-2006 - 12:24am
I'm DEEP, very deep, lol

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