have you ever spanked a vagina?
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have you ever spanked a vagina?
| Tue, 03-07-2006 - 5:34pm |
my bf likes to spank my vagina/ tap it (not very hard or anything, just a pat) but im curious, if this is a usual practise ? (i doubt its a fetish) and if there are other guys out there who do this, how does that get you aroused (like is it a BDSM type of thing or what?)lol
thanks

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There are times after I have an orgasm that Dh does that, like you said nothing hard, just tapping sort of, nothing that hurts.
He had to learn that somewhere. Maybe one of his former g/f's liked it, and like most men, he thinks that all women like it. Maybe, as Rice said, he saw it in a porn flick. Also, guys talk to each other, and tell them what some woman loved, and other guys will think that all women love it.
If you like it, great. If you don't, tell him so.
My ex husband was young and inexperienced (as was I) and he worked with older men. All of a sudden one night he started slobbering all over my ears. It was gross. I asked him why he did that, and he said that a guy at work told him that women LOVE that. I told him I didn't LIKE it, and he acted like there was something wrong with ME!
LOL...I thought I was the only woman alive that didn't find ear play exciting!! If my ears are never kissed or licked again as long as I live...I wouldn't even notice.
The ironic thing is my SO loves to have his earlobes sucked on. I enjoy that doing that to him (cuz it makes him moan), but it would never bring the same response in me.
To the OP, I have seen that in porn videos as well. Not really a spank but more like a pat.
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