He couldn't ejaculate?

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Registered: 10-06-2005
He couldn't ejaculate?
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Sun, 01-08-2006 - 10:54am

OK, my bf abd I have an incredible sex life. I think we're pretty lucky or talented(?) lol Anyway, twice in the last two weeks he couldn't "cum" which is a little unusual. It usually all he can do to keep from cumming. lol Both times he was ooohing, ahhing and moaning all over the place. I thought he was just going to burst! Then he stops me and says he can't take it anymore (in a good way) and asks me to stop. I stop and ask if he's OK. He says yes but doesn't explain what's going on. So I ask if I he wants me to do something different. He says no, he's just spent. He does say he had like one huge orgasim, like he just kept peaking. We don't start in again after he's rested.

But I'm confused. If he was having this incredible orgasmic experience, why didn't he cum?

Thanks.

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Registered: 07-26-2005
Sun, 01-08-2006 - 11:02am

It happens to all men occasionally, and it's not anything to worry about. Sometimes, it's just not right.......other things on his mind, stress, being tired, a lot of different things. It has NOTHING to do with you, or what you did or didn't do.

He wasn't complaining, so don't worry about it. The WORST thing you can do is make an issue of it. Then he'll start worrying about it, and it'll happen again just because he IS worrying about it.

His climax and/or ejaculation are under his control, not yours. No more than your orgasms are something he can control. Let it go, and accept that these things happen once in a while. It's not the end of the world. It's life.

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Sun, 01-08-2006 - 11:39am

Ditto on what Dakine said.


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