He didn't climax???

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Registered: 12-28-2007
He didn't climax???
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Wed, 03-05-2008 - 2:00am

So, I hooked up with this guy and he could not climax! I've never experienced this situation with any guy before and I have no idea what happend!


Let me give you some background... before we had sex we were drinking and smoking pot but neither of us were really drunk. Now

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Registered: 03-08-2004
Wed, 03-05-2008 - 6:46am

It could have been from drinking, the pot, him being nervous

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Wed, 03-05-2008 - 9:05am

Welcome to the board, redvelvet4.

Ditto everything Tish said.

He may have been having trouble maintaining an erection too. Since he's not familiar with you, he may have been going to the bathroom and masturbating a bit to help there. Both alcohol and pot will cause problems with dryness, and can cause problems with him maintaining an erection.

If you're hooking up with him again, you might want to change your pre-sex activities, or you might want to make sure you have some lube handy. Whether or not he cums isn't your problem, but at least you'll be prepared to have the best experience possible.





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Registered: 02-17-2007
Wed, 03-05-2008 - 8:11pm
I think the more important question here is, did YOU enjoy yourself? If you weren't lubricating, that certainly can make it uncomfortable for both of you. Just keep some lube near by and make sure you enjoy yourself. Like the others have said, his orgasm isn't your responsibility. Not to say you can't try to please him, too, but that should be reciprocated. Anyway, good luck and hope you have more fun next time.