He didn't cum...

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Registered: 06-03-2004
He didn't cum...
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Thu, 06-03-2004 - 5:39pm
This is a first for me...I had sex last night with this guy I have been dating for a few months and everything was great but this morning when we had sex, he didn't cum. That's never happened before. Not sure if it was because of him or me. I felt like I didn't do something right,it was good just like the other times but he didn't cum. Has that happened to you? Can you explain to me why didn't he cum??

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Registered: 04-08-2004
Fri, 06-04-2004 - 8:03pm
Nothing to worry about. So many people think sex is just about who cums! Its not! Its about sharing intimate time with your partner. Making a connection in the truest sense. The orgasim is nice but don't lose focus on the reason you are having sex....
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 06-04-2004 - 9:39pm
Okay Smiley, I'm a touch confused. :)

Really nice advice from these responses so far. They helped settle you down, but I believe your question can only be answered by...well...YOUR OWN MAN. LOL!

So...what did he say when you asked HIM if there was anything wrong?

Did he tell you whether or not he was satisfied?

In fact, what exactly DID he say? When he didn't ejaculate, at what point did you two decide to stop trying?

Did he say you weren't doing it for him? Did he himself appear nervous?

You see, its HIS response to this that should matter. As much as we're able to pat you on the shoulder and calm you down online here, I still think HE is the one who can really help you with your questions. I don't know if you'll actually post back on this string again, but if you do, I'd like to know what HIS response was.

two cents...no charge... ;}

 

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Registered: 03-13-2004
Sat, 06-05-2004 - 6:34pm
The first time I was with my bf he did not cum. Sometimes it's just getting comfortable with new people.

However in our case I was getting so dry I couldn't continue :-( He was so good about it though. We woke up the next morning and tried again. :-)

Just be patient. Some guys have to get used to a new partner. If you are concerned, ask him if there is anything in particular he enjoys... you know... get to know each other. I wouldn't worry too too much unless this starts to happen a lot.

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