He does not last!!!

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Registered: 04-11-2006
He does not last!!!
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Mon, 06-12-2006 - 2:08am
My partner does not last more than five minutes. The last few times we had sex, it started off great but after a couple of strokes he was done. He blames it on me saying that he would usually take longer with other girls, but I'm so good that I make him cum faster...I think this is crap...I don't think its true, I just think he is embarrassed, I love being intimate w/ him and I like him as a person, What can I do, if anything to make him last longer...Are there certain positions? techniques?
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Mon, 06-12-2006 - 8:24am

There's nothing you can do by yourself that will make him last longer,


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Registered: 07-26-2005
Mon, 06-12-2006 - 12:25pm

According to your post on Guy Talk, the sex with him is great! It's also just sex, because he doesn't want a girlfriend, only a sex partner. And, given that he's not trying to impress you, he really doesn't CARE how long he lasts. He's looking for sex, you're willing to give it to him with no strings attached.....so he doesn't have to impress you with his staying power.

There are no techniques......his staying power is up to him, and for him to work on getting better would require him CARING, and he doesn't. I doubt if he's embarassed, he's just giving you that line about being so "hot" to keep you happy, but more important, to keep you WILLING!

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Mon, 06-12-2006 - 3:23pm

I missed that one on the Guy Talk board but just went and checked it out now.


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Registered: 06-12-2006
Mon, 06-12-2006 - 11:07pm
How many times do you guys have sex in a night? Can he masturbate the first time and go for round two? I also work in the intimacy enhancement business (Passion Parties) I do sell a topical cream called stay hard creme. This tends to help all of my clients. If interested please contact me at mikatoygirl@yahoo.com
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Registered: 04-11-2006
Tue, 06-13-2006 - 12:03am
um...this is a different guy...no complaints about my sex life with the other guy, thats why I posted on several boards...sorry for the confusion, thanks for the insight, very enlightening
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Registered: 06-15-2006
Thu, 06-15-2006 - 11:31pm

Hi there,

We are on the same boat. My husband is a master of quickies also. Foreplay is so goood that most of the time i don't mind. I do get VERY frustrated when we are rushed and there is no foreplay because he doesn't last so it's not really worth it for me. When you find an answer other than maybe viagra let me know. Being sexually frustrated can really suck because there is not much u can do if he's done unless u want to go solo and i'm not sure i'm that desprate yet.