he doesn't come...

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Registered: 04-12-2005
he doesn't come...
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Tue, 04-19-2005 - 12:08pm

Hello all,

I'm a college girl with a bit of a problem...I'm with a guy right now whom I've known since the beginning of the schoolyear. We're pretty good friends and I like him a lot -- he's just generally fun to be around and we have a good time. We're not really extremely serious because we are both leaving for other countries this summer and will be in our respective locations for at least the next year. We have, however started having sex and, try as we might, HE NEVER COMES.

I have really never been able to come as a result of intercourse, so it's like that's a non-issue in this. It's just that every time he doesn't finish, it makes me feel so useless. From what he's said, he's been with quite a few girls in the past (a lot of them were drunken ordeals...) and he's not really had this problem. I just feel like I must be a lot fatter than them and in the past few weeks I've just started feeling completely unattractive. There are only about 3 weeks left before we go away, so I can deal...I'm just tired of feeling like crap, even though he assures me that it's not my fault. :-/

Anyone else have this problem?

~E

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Registered: 04-22-2005
Fri, 04-22-2005 - 2:53pm
i have a friend who has a similar problem everytime she talks about her sex life it seems like neither of them cum. with my ex there was certain things that if we did them he couldnt cum. chances are its not you.

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