He hates sex!!!

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Registered: 07-09-2004
He hates sex!!!
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Fri, 07-09-2004 - 10:38pm
Help! I am 37 and engaged to be married for the first time in my life... My fiance has no interest in sex! When we started seeing each other the sex was great! Now there is nothing from him!! I have tried to talk to him but he just gets bent out of shape about the whole thing! He is 51... He was divorced once before due to the lack of sex in that marriage... Can anyone help me?
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Registered: 05-27-2004
In reply to: chicopee3
Fri, 07-09-2004 - 11:12pm
All I can say is that if his first wife left him for lack of sex, and he's not interested in sex with you.....that doesn't forebode good for your marriage!

Also, if he can't discuss it, and just throws tantrums if you TRY to discuss it, I'd think twice about going thru with it. Getting married isn't going to magically change things.

He's offering you a life of celibacy, and lack of communication. It doesn't sound like much of a marriage.

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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: chicopee3
Sat, 07-10-2004 - 10:29am
If he doesn't like sex and refuses to talk about it, I would not rush into marriage with him.

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Registered: 06-08-2004
In reply to: chicopee3
Sat, 07-10-2004 - 10:48am
You're in for a world of pain and rejection if you marry this man. Don't do it. You already know you don't want that kind of life. Best wishes to you.