is he just scared?
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is he just scared?
| Fri, 06-03-2005 - 12:05pm |
so, heres the story...the first time i gave this guy head i told him not to cum in my mouth (for fear of gagging/vomitting). Ever since that he doesn't cum at all! i give him head for a loooong time sometimes and he never seems to climax. he's pretty silent too. i hardly know if he's enjoying himself at all (although after he tells me that he loves it). i can't help but feel like i'm not doing something right. i do the whole hand and mouth combo, use my tounge, lips and everything, but he never seems to come to that point of no return. can he still be "loving it" if he doesn't cum?? should have not told him not to cum that first time? and what can i do drive him wild?

Not all men cum from oral sex but that doesn't mean it's not good for them and they don't enjoy it.
If he wasn't enjoying it, he wouldn't ask for a repeat performance. Many men can't finish orally.....and it has nothing to do with what you're doing, or not doing. That's just the way they are. Whether or not he finishes has nothing to do with him having pleasure. Also, many men are very quiet during sex.
Don't make a big deal out of it, let him finish any way he's comfortable. Some men can't be "driven wild". It's sufficient for them to enjoy. If and when your mouth or jaw gets tired, then stop. Going on longer isn't going to help. Maybe eventually he'll get more comfortable with it and be able to finish.
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