Is he pushing it too hard?

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-26-2004
Is he pushing it too hard?
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Thu, 08-26-2004 - 3:27am
For a while now I've noticed after having sex with my new boyfriend I've been swollen and it usually hurts. Not during...just after..sometimes to the point that It hurts to walk right after. Is this normal? or is something wrong..PLEASE HELP ME!!!!
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-03-2004
Thu, 08-26-2004 - 6:07am
It could be a lube problem, if not try some new positions. If it becomes worse ask your doctor.

  

   who_reallyknows

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Registered: 05-27-2004
Thu, 08-26-2004 - 8:55am
Not enough foreplay to get you relaxed and well lubricated? That's what it sounds like. Not enough lubrication will cause soreness and burning. Buy some KY or Astroglide, and see if that helps.

As the other poster said, if it doesn't help, then it's time to see your gyno.

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Registered: 05-21-2004
Thu, 08-26-2004 - 10:40am
I would try being on top where you can control the 'thrusting' a little more.

DEFINITLEY use lube since being really 'raw' like that could be a lubrication problem.

Also try more 'grinding' and less 'thrusting'. Sometimes the rapid in-and-out is harder on all that gentle skin down there.

But to be safe...i'd DEF ask your doctor!

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