Is he too BIG for me?
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Is he too BIG for me?
| Sat, 07-24-2004 - 12:07pm |
One of my ex-boyfriends that I just slept with again yesterday is really...well, BIG. He has to buy extra large condoms (I'm not kidding - I wish that I were). Anyway, I've been with my share of guys, but I've never seen anything like this before. I lost my virginity to him and he lost his to me about five years ago, and it still hurt to have sex with him yesterday even though I've been with quite a few guys in between! How is that possible?! It made me feel like a virgin again, which was really kind of cool, but at the same time, it was really strange. If I have sex with him in the future, will things ever get any better for me? Thanks for reading!

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Getting down to the nitty gritty...slow sensual penetrations worked much better for us than actual thrusting did. Allowing your parts to 'adjust' to the slow introduction of him may prove very effective if you haven't tried that method. As you become more comfortable and aroused, then you'll probably become more capable of accepting more of him at a deeper and/or faster rythm.
As always though, I'd focus more on perfecting the from foreplay first, to get you as fully aroused as much as possible. The Mrs. & I many times enjoy sensual body massages to start. You'll get plenty of pointers, I'm sure.
Good luck to ya. :)
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Since he is an ex-boyfriend, were you a little nervous about it, maybe a little hesitant?
I always thought I liked large penis's, but now I'm finding out I like them just average size. Average size for me is: 7" long x 5" a-round. I wouldn't want anything less and well, I guess if he were a little bigger, it wouldn't bother me, but I'm very happy with what I have, haha. Plus if the guy is average size, it is easier to do lots of different positions easily.
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