Is he too old ?

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Registered: 04-25-2005
Is he too old ?
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Tue, 07-12-2005 - 10:15am
i recently met this guy last week and hes pretty attractive. hes in a famous metal band and is a very good singer. i hung out with him for only the second time last night and we went to his house and went at it .. the full monty. now im not asking for opinions or comments about me hooking up with this guy just on the second time we hung out but what i am asking is do you think its right that i hang out with him since he is 25 and im 18. i love his personality and we have so much in common and he wants to see me again. i just wanted to know what you thought on the whole age thing. thanks :)

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Registered: 08-12-2004
Tue, 07-12-2005 - 10:26am
The age thing is not a problem in my opinion. But his profession could be. I just wouldn't expect anything long term. I don't mean to be stereotyping, but I'm afraid it seems to come with that territory. JMHO
I hope you're practicing safe sex.
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Registered: 12-20-2004
Tue, 07-12-2005 - 10:34am
he may not be too old for you, but if hes in a band ,he may be too wild for you...
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Tue, 07-12-2005 - 10:35am

That's your choice and you're decision.


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Registered: 06-15-2005
Tue, 07-12-2005 - 11:04am

I agree with everyone else. The age difference is the last thing that comes to mind when I heard what you said. After only the second meeting, you let him have it? I'm not sure about exactly how you feel but it kind of sounds like you are starting to have feelings for him. I don't see a guy like that (sorry if that sounded bad) having a real relationship with a girl so young especially when he is probably on the road a lot and single and free.

But on the other hand, if you're just into him because of the physical attraction and the sex, then by all means knock yourself out. Just remember and think about how many other girls he has been with the first or second time he met with them. Always protect yourself.

jerz

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 07-12-2005 - 11:10am

The age difference isn't that great but you said he's "pretty attractive." What does that mean? Is he just okay but because he's famous, he's good enough physically?

You're an adult and you get to decide with whom and when you have sex....but I wouldn't put too much hope in this being anything more than a fling though. He's got girls everywhere he goes. That's the life of a rocker.

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Registered: 05-27-2004
Tue, 07-12-2005 - 11:10am

He's not too old......but you're too young. You are also inexperienced, and you're naive.

You like his personality? You don't KOW his personality except for on stage and in bed. He's a good singer? How does that enter into any kind of relationship? Of course he wants to see you again! That doesn't mean he has any feelings for you.....you're more than likely one of many, and you're setting yourself up for another fall.

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Registered: 04-25-2005
Tue, 07-12-2005 - 12:01pm
im not looking for a relationship. and i understand the life of a rocker. im not going to get attached either. we are friends just looking for a good time. its summer .. im 18 .. single and ready to mingle but that doesnt mean im going to get with every guy i can get my hands on. i understand the situation and he does travel alot so im not considering a future with this guy. hes just a fun person to hang out with. and ofcourse we are using protection .. thats the key. i dont want to get knocked up .. especially at this age.lol. thanx for those who think that he isnt too old and i dont consider myself too young. i mean its my decision anyways, right ? thanx guys and girls
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Tue, 07-12-2005 - 12:06pm
Getting knocked up would be the least of my worries, STDs would be my main concern.

~Tish

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Registered: 04-25-2005
Tue, 07-12-2005 - 12:46pm
thats always been my biggest fear.
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Tue, 07-12-2005 - 1:08pm
Mother Hen checking in here.

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