He wants it all the time

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Registered: 12-22-2005
He wants it all the time
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Thu, 07-19-2007 - 7:52am

Hi everyone!

I am not complaining about the above subject line--just curious. I have been dating someone really special for about a month and we recently started having sex 2 weeks ago. We wake up and literally, he is all over me until he leaves, which is usually in the evening the following day. We will have sex, he will get off, and then he's ready again, without rest. He can go 5 times in a row and get off each time and still want more.

Anyone ever had this experience? He says he is very attracted to me. I myself need time to recuperate after sex before I am ready for more action.

Gal Blondie

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Registered: 02-20-2007
Thu, 07-19-2007 - 7:59am
When my hubby and I first started having sex we did it all the time. Like 3 times a day alot of the time. I think alot of relationships are like that. If you're not up to it, you need to tell him. I'm sure he will understand. I know there were times when I would get sore, just because we were going at it so much. You just need to tell him....that's all.
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Registered: 12-22-2005
Thu, 07-19-2007 - 8:02am

Thanks for your response. I don't mind...really : ). It's more like 7-10 times a day. One after the other, right in a row. I have never met a man who could go like that and get off each and every time, with no break. However, he is more athletic than some of my former boyfriends, so that prob. accounts for some of his stamina.

Thanks again!

Gal Blondie

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Registered: 12-12-2006
Thu, 07-19-2007 - 8:52am

Seven to ten times a day sounds more like an addiction than "attraction"! You've only been with him for a month, and this has been going on for two weeks? What else do you two do? Do you have jobs? Does he ever take you out anywhere, or spend any "upright" time with you?

Usually when a flame bursts out that way, it burns out just as fast!

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Registered: 10-18-2001
Thu, 07-19-2007 - 2:59pm
Doesn't sound unusual to me. Sure, he's at the higher end of the scale. I know that at the start of a new sexual relationship that the frequency of sex is usually very high - the little hormones and libido is fired up. Especially if you can make the time to have lots of sex. With time it will probably reduce in frequency.
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Registered: 03-31-2007
Thu, 07-19-2007 - 3:59pm
Welcome to the board gal-blondie101.