He wants me to talk dirty! What do I do?
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He wants me to talk dirty! What do I do?
| Sat, 07-10-2004 - 8:19pm |
My boyfriend and I have a really great sex life, but sometimes he wants me to talk dirty to him and that's never really been my thing. I have no idea what to say. I ask him and he says "whatever comes out". Well, I have no idea what to do. That just really isn't something I want to do, but I want to make him happy so I'm willing to try it. What should I say? What to guys want to hear their girlfriends say? If anybody has any advice, please share!

Leticia
Speaking for myself, I like it nasty, decriptive, loud, and raw.
(The loud part is hopefully a subconscious/in the heat of the moment type of thing.)
As far as specifics: I like hearing how good it feels like being so deep inside. Generically, I like when she talks about how good my penis feels to her. I love it when my wife tells me to go harder in a very dirty way. (I'm not trying to be vague here, just not trying to get warned - again). When I'm going down on her, I like hearing feedback mainly to let me know if I'm hitting the right spot at the right moment with the right instensity. The lack of noise is my cue to move to a different spot, or go harder until I hear our safeword -- ouch.
I like how she tells me how much she loves me. Ok, the last one wasn't dirty, but when I'm having my orgasms inside her, hearing the words whispered, "I love you so much" makes my orgasm so much more explosive.
Just a few ideas for ya.
-- That was funny!