He wants me to Verbalise sex
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He wants me to Verbalise sex
| Tue, 10-11-2005 - 12:39pm |
Hi All
I'm in a FWB relationship and we have a really good time, but one thing that he really likes is for me to tell him what I would like to do to him .
When he asks I get stage fright and my mind completely freezes and I can't think at all about anything.
Can anyone please give me some ideas of what to say, I really like to satisfy him and I know nothing will excite him more, than some dirty talk !!

Okay, isn't the basic idea of a FWB arrangement, that you get your sexual needs met with no strings attached? Why should you worry about doing anything that makes YOU feel uncomfortable in order to please HIM?
I could understand wanting to please him if this was a real relationship, with intimate feelings for one another, etc. but this is a relationship of sexual convenience, isn't it?
If this doesn't come naturally to you and you don't want to verbalize what you feel during sex, then don't.
Edited 10/11/2005 4:28 pm ET by katmandoo2001
Why are you so keen to do something that makes you feel really uncomfortable?
If this is just a FWB situation then why are you so damn keen to do this? This isn't a relationship where he will love you more if you do what he wants! A FWB is pure sex for mutual pleasure without emotional attachment.
Honestly, who cares if he isn't totally satisfied? It really isn't your problem. If he isn't getting what he wants now, then tough, he should move on. Likewise, if you aren't satisfied, then move on. Whats all this rubbish about learning how to please him more? He's just as likely to begin dating and screwing the girl that he meets on the bus next week as he is to be thankful that you can now talk "dirty".