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Registered: 05-10-2005
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Tue, 05-10-2005 - 2:50pm
I have been seeing this guy for three weeks and wanted to have sex with him, I am very careful as to who I choose to have sex with, so it is obvious I really like this guy. Well, his ex just showed up and is back in his life. I feel stupid for almost letting my guard down and depressed cause I really like him and will miss him. What should I do?
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Registered: 11-10-2003
In reply to: crzylife05
Tue, 05-10-2005 - 2:52pm
There's never a good outcome when people get tied up with their exes again. If he's willing to push you aside when she steps back into the picture, then he obviously can't think that highly of you. Quit wasting your time missing him and find someone who puts you first!
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: crzylife05
Tue, 05-10-2005 - 3:55pm

What should you do? Grieve this short relationship and move on.

But don't feel stupid for being attracted to someone. You didn't do anything wrong, he made a choice and opted to go back with the ex. How could you possibly know that he would do that? Give yourself a break.

Everyone's been hurt though and we all survive. Move on and make room in your heart for the man who will love and cherish you for you.




Edited 5/10/2005 4:05 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001