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Sat, 06-07-2008 - 12:22pm
my wife is a little bigger and well I am of average size but we dont always fit well is there a position better for us
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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: nicemike
Sat, 06-07-2008 - 5:12pm

Welcome to the board, nicemike.

Have you tried rear entry positions? Another position you might want to try is one I refer to as a "T" position. You are on your side facing her. She is on her back, and the two of you are joined in intercourse, usually with your legs scissored. This allows you access to all of her body as well ;-)

Here are some other things you might want to review:

Perfect Position Selector
http://choosers.ivillage.com/love/perfect_position/launcher.php

Sexual Positions for Larger People
http://www.more2hug.com/articles/sex.html

Guide to Sex for Large Couples
http://www.sexuality.org/l/sex/fatsex.html

Big Love: A Sourcebook on Sex for People of Size and Those Who Love Them
http://www.amazon.com/Big-Love-Sourcebook-People-Those/dp/1890159166

You might want to repeat your question in the "Sex Talk" folder. Unfortunately, we're no longer able to request that posts be moved to more appropriate folders, but it's more likely to get noticed there. Also, you will probably get more responses there.



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Registered: 10-28-2006
In reply to: nicemike
Mon, 06-09-2008 - 1:11pm

hi there


hmm well lets see the T is great postion...have you tried sitting at the end of the bed and having her sit in your lap backwards with her back facing you? or water sex... that's great because you can both move eachother around and do ll kinds of fun postions like girl on top or doggy style ...doggy style tends to be a little boring after awhile so you can make it interesting like bending her over a table.. or have her standing up leaning against the wall in the shower or in any room...Alittle hair pulling makes it extra fun hehe... oh don't forget you can both lay on your sides and enter that way this is one of my favs because ether one of you can play with her clit and if she arches her back alittle it seems to hit the the right places!


Hope this helps


kareese

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Registered: 06-07-2008
In reply to: nicemike
Tue, 06-10-2008 - 8:32am
thank you so much for the advice the trouble is that we are not compatible to do doggy style we I blame me because I am not a man of large stature if you know what I mean but the bathtub thing seams very fun
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Registered: 10-28-2006
In reply to: nicemike
Tue, 06-10-2008 - 12:49pm

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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: nicemike
Wed, 06-11-2008 - 11:38am

A board ghost must have heard my prayers ... your post has been moved to the Sex Talk folder!

Just letting you know that it's moved in case you go looking for it. Hopefully, you'll get more replies here as well.

I'll also chime in that I agree with Kareese --water sex is awesome! Because the water washes away your natural lubrication, you might need to add a lube that isn't water soluble. We use KY Intrigue for water play, and it's wonderful!



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Registered: 05-24-2008
In reply to: nicemike
Wed, 06-11-2008 - 3:41pm

I have experienced the water washing the lubrication away before...in the shower.

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In reply to: nicemike
Wed, 06-11-2008 - 4:32pm
That's the beauty of using a product like KY Intrigue. It requires soap and water to wash it away ... without the soap, it lasts a long time too. Very silky, very useful, very fun ;-)


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Registered: 05-24-2008
In reply to: nicemike
Thu, 06-12-2008 - 4:27pm
Thanks for the tip.