Help don't know what to say

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Registered: 03-15-2008
Help don't know what to say
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Sun, 03-16-2008 - 6:43pm
I posted this question a day ago, but don't remember where. I need some help, I am a quiet person and have a hard time describing things, or may just getting words to come out. My BF would really like for me to talk to him during sex, but I'm always caught up in how good he feels, I really can't think of anything to tell him. I have been working on it and have gotten a little better, but there is one thing that he ask me that I just don't know how to answer him other then you feel great or awesome. He wants to know what he feels like when he's inside of me, and as much as I would love to tell him something other then you feel great, baby. That seems to be all I can think of. Anybody have any ideas, he has been overseas for a while and would like to surprise him when he does ask, or Just through it out. Because I have notice when I do say a few things during sex it really turns him on. Please Help!!
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Registered: 03-31-2007
Sun, 03-16-2008 - 7:19pm

Welcome to the board, lovmyman.

My standard line is "OMG" or "OMG, I can't believe how good that feels", LOL. I do say other things, but it's more like I just let my thoughts seep out of my mouth. Maybe in addition to telling him how good he feels, you could tell him when something in particular feels good or GREAT. Saying things like "Oh, right there" can be encouraging, as can telling him what you would like him to do.

Here are a few articles you might want to review too:

The Do’s and Don’t of Dirty Talk (Tracey Cox walks you through the process)
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sextaboos/0,,traceycox_c0pnkb69,00.html

Talk Dirty To Me
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sextaboos/0,,drpatti_2zpq,00.html

Dirty Talk: Encouraging Erotic Discussion
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sextaboos/0,,drpatti_8xb,00.html

Bad Libs: The Good Girls’ Guide to Talking Dirty
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sextaboos/0,,9j7q,00.html





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Registered: 03-03-2008
Mon, 03-17-2008 - 2:08am

If it's really difficult for you maybe tell you you are so overcome by how wonderful it feels that you have trouble forming words (that's also a great ego booster for him ;)

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Registered: 12-12-2006
Mon, 03-17-2008 - 1:07pm

If you go to any search engine and type in "talking dirty"........you'll find hundreds of things to read, and get inspired!