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| Tue, 02-05-2008 - 10:59pm |
Alright soooo....I cant really ask this question to anyone else quite yet, so i wanted to see if someone here can help me out! First problem is i have been dating a guy for about a year love him but sometimes when we have sex...i dont always...ya know..."go". Well if i have some clit action lol i do! He dosent get that all the time..make me feel bad or stupid. The other problem is lately when we are having sex he has been asking if he can cum on my face. (FYI we like doing some kinky stuff this has happened a few times so its norm) But lately i feel like all he wants to do is do THAT! I feel like we are getting romantic and weet and connecting and then he pops that freakin question...how do i tell him that i only want to get freaky lol like that sometimes? Am i wierd..? Are we wierd? or what? SERIOUSLY BE HONEST!!!
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Do you two talk to each other OUTSIDE the bedroom?
Welcome to the board, Marie.
I don't think you're weird. You're not the first girl who has let a guy give her a facial, and your guy isn't the first guy that gets really hot at the thought or the act itself. Maybe you should suggest to him that instead of asking if he can give you a facial, to wait until you offer the opportunity. If you don't think that will work, why not suggest that he reserve facials for something special and out of the ordinary -- let him know that you don't want it involved on a regular basis. If he keeps asking, and you keep saying no, then the two of you are likely to start building resentment toward each other.
He shouldn't be forgetting about your sexual satisfaction either. You can stop that behavior by either delaying intercourse until you have had your orgasm, or y making sure you get clitoral stimulation during intercourse. You can do it yourself, ask him to do it, put his hand there, or introduce a vibrator to your relationship. The link Sakura gave you is also a great resource to share with him.
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