Sorry to hear you're still searching, Kendenrayne. It does take time, and patience from most I've heard talk about it, but once you find it, there's no going back ;-)
I think using pillows created the best success when DH and I were trying to find mine. We would put 2 pillows under my butt while I was lying on my back. This angle seems to be very helpful. He would use two fingers inside of me and a "come hither" motion. His fingers were only buried to the second knuckle, and they hooked around what felt like a bone and rubbed in the indent just beyond that.
It's a very pleasurable feeling, but a little difficult to identify. At first, I think I was expecting something that had a very noticeable "different" feel, and when I didn't feel that after a few minutes, we would quit trying. Persistence paid off, lol. We kept trying, and what I found was that the feeling of pleasure was consistent and slow building. (That's more difficult to explain.) Consistent in that the feeling of pleasure doesn't subside, nor did it feel a great deal "different" at first. Slow building in that it builds up in intensity, but very, very slowly. A pressure sort of builds too (that's when you'll get the feeling that you need to pee). Once you recognize all of the feelings associated with this, it doesn't take as long to build (sort of like when you were learning how to have orgasms).
I've also had great success finding it with my rabbit. The rotating pearls do amazing things!
I think I just found it on my wife the last time we had sex. I reached two fingers straight in and right at the tip of my fingers I noticed a spongy spot. I kept rubbing it in different ways. She didn't have an orgasm from that (it took her rabbit), but she had wet the bed, and when I did enter her, she had an orgasm with each thrust. I think you have to be really aroused to find it, so go to it girl! Get wet!
As part of your end-of-post gallery, is that a chick's wet crotch? I've never seen a picture like that before, but it's kinda hot ;) Did she take it herself?
Luv,
J.
Sorry to hijack... I agree with the others' descriptions of how the g-spot feels to the touch, and as the recipient of said touch.
Sorry to hear you're still searching, Kendenrayne. It does take time, and patience from most I've heard talk about it, but once you find it, there's no going back ;-)
I think using pillows created the best success when DH and I were trying to find mine. We would put 2 pillows under my butt while I was lying on my back. This angle seems to be very helpful. He would use two fingers inside of me and a "come hither" motion. His fingers were only buried to the second knuckle, and they hooked around what felt like a bone and rubbed in the indent just beyond that.
It's a very pleasurable feeling, but a little difficult to identify. At first, I think I was expecting something that had a very noticeable "different" feel, and when I didn't feel that after a few minutes, we would quit trying. Persistence paid off, lol. We kept trying, and what I found was that the feeling of pleasure was consistent and slow building. (That's more difficult to explain.) Consistent in that the feeling of pleasure doesn't subside, nor did it feel a great deal "different" at first. Slow building in that it builds up in intensity, but very, very slowly. A pressure sort of builds too (that's when you'll get the feeling that you need to pee). Once you recognize all of the feelings associated with this, it doesn't take as long to build (sort of like when you were learning how to have orgasms).
I've also had great success finding it with my rabbit. The rotating pearls do amazing things!
Some women do not experience any sensation difference from g-spot stimulation so if you do not find it, it may just not be an errogenous zone for you.
Brad,
As part of your end-of-post gallery, is that a chick's wet crotch? I've never seen a picture like that before, but it's kinda hot ;) Did she take it herself?
Luv,
J.
Sorry to hijack... I agree with the others' descriptions of how the g-spot feels to the touch, and as the recipient of said touch.
Edited 5/19/2008 10:58 pm ET by julia668
Um, thanks! Have I not been here before? I guess not! I thought that I must have, but if you're welcoming me, then I musn't have. ;)
Luv,
J.