HELP WITH PAINFUL SEX...

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Registered: 10-06-2004
HELP WITH PAINFUL SEX...
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Tue, 08-09-2005 - 8:56pm
Hi,so i have written before and my doctor said to wait 2 weeks... okay i after waiting for a long time, i have to go back to the gyno. i have waited for over 2weeks to make love to my hunny, i am 21 and want to be sexually active again, but i have been having this pain in my vagina that has been not permitting me to do so. This started over a month ago and is starting to really upset me. The doc said to wait 2 weeks so i heal cause she thought i was just a little raw. So i did and then it still hurt. And not hes in too deep hitting the cervix pain, but the top of my vagina wall feels weird and sore. Then the last 2 times we had sex there was not a lot, just about a tiny drop of blood, and not brown period blood like fresh bright red blood. I'm so scared that its something really bad. Can anyone help me or if anyone knows what this might be can you please tell me because the last time i went to the gyno, she couldn't find anything wrong...please i need help. thanks
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-26-2005
Tue, 08-09-2005 - 11:55pm
If the doc can't find anything wrong with you, then you must be doing something wrong. Soreness, rawness and bleeding come from being too tight, and/or too dry. Make sure that you have plenty of foreplay, that you're fully aroused and relaxed, and that you're well lubricated. You may THINK you're relaxed, but just the fact that you have pain will make you NOT relaxed....and more than likely not well lubricated. Start by adding some lubrication.....that should help. If it hurts, then STOP before you do damage, and try again the next time.