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| Sun, 05-15-2005 - 10:59am |
Long time lurker here, first time poster. Hopefully I will post more in the future, but right now I need some help.
One of my biggest fantasies is to do my husband with a strap-on, but I have really been trying to find the best way to broach the subject with him. I am not at all concerned that he will think this a strange request; I know he won't think that. I am just afraid he will feel guilty if he is unable to fulfill my fantasy. I know a lot of guys are totally turned off by the idea.
For this reason, I think the ideal way to bring up the subject would while we were watching a porn dvd together and there was a girl-guy strap-on scene. This way I can downplay how big of a turn-on it is for me and not put him on the spot. (Not to mention the thrill I would get from watching it with him)
Does any one know of any porn titles with scenes of a woman doing a man with a strap-on? I don't mean a fetish flick loaded with strap-on sex, but a couple-friendly title that would be less conspicuous in that it only had one isolated strap-on scene.

Hi, Shywife, glad you decided to de-lurk!
Sorry, I can't help you with any titles but I'm confused by your plan. Are you hoping that he won't know that you are turned on by this secret desire? Won't he figure it out when you suggest trying it together AFTER seeing the video? Or are you trying to gauge his reaction by seeing someone else doing it first?
I can't see why he would feel guilty if he didn't want to do it though. We don't all enjoy the same things and shouldn't be expected to fulfill every whim or fantasy of our partner.
Why not start to touch your husband down there. While you are going down on him or playing with him down there, just start to touch his anus and put a little pressure against it with your finger (don't try to go in at first). If he likes it, then you can put some lube on your finger and slide it inside. Spend a little time doing that before trying a strap-on so his anus gets used to having something put in it. Good luck, I wish my DW would want to do that too.
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Hey shy_wife! Welcome to the show, hope the de-lurking proves helpful.
you'd like a porn video of it regardless your husband's decision to oblige, then I think it wouldn't be such a bad idea to contact any of those places that do have porn videos for rent/sale and get some input from them. I'm guessing you'd be able to ask them about it anonymously?
From a hubby point of view though, not sure how he could possibly feel guilty about saying he isn't interested so long as you 'allow' him to decide on it without pressuring him more than once on the subject.
A video in this case wouldn't help things between me and Mrs. Para, realizing of course all couples are different. Her being honest with me without it and leaving it alone if I declined is the best way for us actually. No pressure, no video or images to remember or anything like that.
Hope all works out for you, good luck.
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