Help, Sex is painful

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-26-2007
Help, Sex is painful
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Thu, 06-26-2008 - 5:15pm

I don't understand why I have this problem.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-24-2008
Thu, 06-26-2008 - 6:25pm
I once had a problem with deodorant tampons where it irritated my skin, I had sex and then it caused tears outside the vaginal opening.
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Registered: 06-26-2007
Thu, 06-26-2008 - 7:08pm
Thanks for that information.
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Registered: 03-31-2007
Thu, 06-26-2008 - 8:35pm

Welcome to the board, vmindzeyev.

I'm not sure why that would be happening. I think it's probably something that needs to be narrowed down a step at a time, which takes a lot of time and thought. I'm surprised that the doctors didn't suggest something along those lines.

You can also expect the pain, which will make you tense ... and usually result in pain.

Here are some articles I've collected that might have some helpful information for you:

Sexual Pain
http://pain.health.ivillage.com/chestabdomenpelvicpain/sexualpain.cfm

Why is Sex Painful?
http://health.ivillage.com/sexualhealth/sxarousal/0,,pscp,00.html

Painful Sex: Causes and Cures
http://health.ivillage.com/sexualhealth/sxarousal/0,,3frw,00.html

Sex: What is Causing Discomfort During Intercourse?
http://health.ivillage.com/sexualhealth/sxarousal/0,,77m5,00.html

Vaginal Pain from Penetration
http://yourtotalhealth.ivillage.com/vaginal-pain-from-penetration.html



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Registered: 12-12-2006
Fri, 06-27-2008 - 10:45am

It's not likely you're allergic to his penis, but you COULD be allergic to his semen!

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Registered: 10-28-2006
Fri, 06-27-2008 - 11:06am

Hi


I think sakura maybe right......I was allergic to my X husbands cum....and it stung and burned...for yrs....then one day it quit after i was pregnant with our 2nd child...condoms would fix this solution...also i know that if you are uncomftrable...nervous ect...your body will sometimes react badly so that the sex stops....This happens to women who have been abused ..... or have a bad sexual past...not saying you do...but that's another reason....but it really sounds like your allergic...try condoms see if that helps...


Hope you find your answer....plz do let us know if anything changes!


Kareese