HELP with Sex Talk!

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HELP with Sex Talk!
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Wed, 04-13-2005 - 10:21am
My bf and I had a discussion on sex talk and we both discussed how much we both like it. He tried some talk during sex and I really did like it, but I was at a bit of a loss as to what to say. He said stuff like "you make me so hard", "you're so wet", "you feel so good". I didn't want to just repeat something he said either. Any suggestions?
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Wed, 04-13-2005 - 10:34am

Well, I don't see what's wrong with describing what you're feeling, too. That will sound as sexy to him as it does to you.

But why not tell him what you WANT him to do? "Lick me, suck me, take me, do me, eat me, touch me...there, harder, there, harder, oh yeah, that's it, harder." You get the idea.

Basically, talking dirty in bed is just thinking out loud.

Loud moaning and groaning in response to what's going on always works for me though. LOL!

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Registered: 04-13-2005
Wed, 04-13-2005 - 12:04pm

"F*ck me deep", "take me", "I want you to cum deep inside me", "f*ck me til it hurts"...

I love telling my man where I want him to cum...and he usually obliges ;-)

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Wed, 04-13-2005 - 12:46pm

A male here. Kat pretty much hit that right on.

<<"Lick me, suck me, take me, do me, eat me, touch me...there, harder, there, harder, oh yeah, that's it, harder.">>

THAT"S IT !!!!
now I need to go smoke.....whew
LOL




Edited 4/13/2005 2:39 pm ET ET by luvlickin
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Wed, 04-13-2005 - 1:11pm

Okay hislove, the reason I wasn't so explicit in my response is because the board has rules about that sort of thing. No vulgar or slang expressions for body parts, sexual acts, etc.

Yes, EVEN with the asterisks, we all know what you're saying and that kind of explicit language isn't allowed on this board. Check out the Terms of Service.

Just thought I would mention it since it could get your posts pulled and that would be a shame.




Edited 4/13/2005 7:09 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
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Thu, 04-14-2005 - 10:31am

Ok, I'll try to be good from now on....(THAT will be hard;-))

Sorry :-(

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Thu, 04-14-2005 - 10:43am
Just a friendly warning. Glad you're posting!
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Thu, 04-14-2005 - 11:28pm
I find that it is fun with a man to start talking way before we are naked and in bed together. Call him in the middle of the afternoon and tell him that you are looking forward to this evening, then follow it up with an email that might be a little more suggestive. I love flirting and teasing, and I don't find the other half of the human race complaining. Also, when you are in bed and warming up and playing with him tell him how clever he is to make it as hard as it is, kiss it, talk to it, and fondle it as you do so. During lovemaking I find that men like suggestive whispers in the ear and encouragement because it feels so, so, so, so goooood. Elaine