??????? help!! whaz up with me?

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??????? help!! whaz up with me?
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Wed, 01-18-2006 - 9:28pm
help, can anyone tell me what color is a woman's cum? my male friend told me that mine is clowdy. we have only had oral sex no intercourse 2 times. both times i was very wet & lubricated, even after i came. it has been 12 1/2 yrs since i had sex with anyone, & about 5 yrs since he had sex with anyone. he thinks that i may have something funky but i think that it would have shown up in 12 1/2 yrs. oh ya the last partner i had sex with, my 1st partner said that i was very wet & lubricated with him too.
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Wed, 01-18-2006 - 9:43pm
sounds normal to me
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Wed, 01-18-2006 - 11:28pm

You're talking about vaginal lubrication, which isn't "cum". It has nothing to do with ejaculation, or whether or not you have orgasms. For most women it's thick and opaque. What did you think it was supposed to be? If he's performing oral on you, it's also mixed with his saliva, so he's a little confused, too.

If you did have something "funky", it rarely shows itself in your lubrication, and there's no way of knowing (even after 12.5 years) if you have any STD's without being tested. He's not much of a judge of what a woman's lubrication is like if he hasn't had sex in 5 years! (It's somewhat different for everyone, both in consistency and amounts)

The only thing that would show itself in your vaginal fluids would be a yeast or bacterial infection, and if you had either of those, YOU would know it......you wouldn't need him to tell you.

If you're worried about it, see your gyno & get tested.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 01-19-2006 - 10:30am

Depends on where you are in your menstrual cycle. When it's slightly sticky and clear, like the consistency of eggwhites, you're ovulating, the rest of the time it will be slightly cloudy or white. Don't worry about it....you're normal. Just educate your BF about he's looking at.

And yes, when you're very aroused, you typically ARE very wet and lubricated.