Here are the positions ....

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Here are the positions ....
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Tue, 07-06-2004 - 4:04pm
Thank You all for partaking in my survey. The results have been wonderful. I know most of you said you would love to try some new positions and rate them. I know alot of you probably have tried several and the ones I give are probably not new. So, if you have tried one of the positions, just rate them. If you have not, have fun and then come back ASAP and rate them.

The ratings are as follows, 1 is boring !!!! and all the way up to 10 is excellent.

If you really like 1 10+, if you really hate one, 1-.

Have fun. By my results, 95% of the girls favored missionary style variations, so that will be the meat and potatoes.

COWGIRL

1. Regular, straddling him facing him

2. Reverse , facing away

3. start regular, then try to lay back so that your head is at his feet.

Support your weight on your feet and knees, put your hands on his chest and rather than straddling him, bounce up and down on him.

Doggy

1. regular

2. put your head down on the bed and put your butt up in the air.

3.start doggy and then fall flat on your stomach. kinda like missionary but on your stomach.

4. Instead of the usual doggy, close your legs and have him put his legs on the outside of yours. This is a good one.

MISSIONARY

1. While having missionary style sex, buck your hips and meet his thrusts halfway. Use the bed to make you bounce higher. I buck my hips so hard and fast that he has to grab the sheets or headboard to keep him from being thrown off me.

2. In missionary, have him drop his weight on top of you so that he rests on his forearms, Wrap your legs tightly around his waist. In this variation, I love to kiss him and sometimes draw my nails in to his back.

3. Close your legs so that he is straddling you.

4. Have him align himself directly on top of you. In other words his kness are right above yours and your feet should be touching. Grab his butt and guide him. I like to move him in side to side motions.

5. During missionary sex, have him straddle your left leg. the key is he has to kinda turn his upper body a little to the right. It's a diffrent angle and feels good.

6. Reverse Missionary, this one is kinda tricky. it took us about 5 tries to finally figure it out. You lay on your back, have him get on his hands and knees facing your feet, kinda straddling you. Have him come down, Put your legs on his back and help guide him in you. Once he's inside have him get comfortable and thrust just like regular missionary only shallow. This also frees both your hands so that you can fondle each other. If you can do it right, OMG!

7. Missionary with 1 leg over shoulder

8. Missionary with both legs over his shoulders.

9. The entwinement, Start missionary, take your feet and wrap them around his ankles, I like to open my legs as wide as I can and stretch him out a little,

10. THE CAT also known as The Slow Rock, Start missionary, have him shift his hips so that they are higher than yours, have him drop his weight on you Instead of the usual thrusting, once inside of you, have him start grinding into you, circles, side to side, have him go crazy. What you'll like is that the way he's positioned on you, when he grinds he is putting direct stimulation on your clitoris. This variation is guaranteed to make your orgasm. I am yet to not orgasm when we do the cat. It just feels so good, the pressure, I know some people say that girl on top is best for putting pressure on your clitoris. They are wrong. I get alot more pleasure from This missionary variation than any other. Trust me, when you try this one, You are gonna be amazed and if it isn't your favorite, it will be now. Take your time and remember the key is for him not to thrust but just grind hard and fast. Or slow as long as he's grinding into you.

11. from missionary, when he drops his weight on you, have him place his hands under your butt and instead of you all thrusting just rock side to side.

12. Have him hold you down by your wrists and thrust away.

13.The clock method, start missionary and while he's inside of you have him start moving himself so that he rotates all the way around. Picture a clock, You're still and he's the moving hand. He moves and moves and moves till he is back in regular missionary. This one can be hard keeping him inside, he needs to stay as snug into you as he can. But it is fun. Sometimes he gets to a certain angle and it hits the spot, so I'll have him stop and thrust into me. Usually I have him stop when we're forming an "X". Try it.

Well, that should keep you all busy forawhile. These have all been tested and are probably the best variations from these positions. Try them, rate them and have fun, If they are to many or are a little to hard, do what works. Thanks and Have Fun!!!

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Tue, 07-06-2004 - 5:19pm
Well, after 28 yrs. with the same man, we've tried all these, MANY, MANY times. But I'll take your survey.

Cowgirl

1. Reg. 10

2. Reverse 1

3. 1 BTW, rather than bouncing up and down as you suggested, we prefer deep grinding.


Doggy-All positions, 10

Missionary-modified with both feet on chest-10

Reg. 2

Cat-7











Edited 7/6/2004 5:22 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001

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Tue, 07-06-2004 - 8:18pm
I took your other survey on the other sex board....this is a lot of fun! :)

Sex: Female

Age: 21

Married/Single : Pretty much married, but engaged(1 year of engagment, 18 months together total)

COWGIRL

1. Regular, straddling him facing him * 9 --I can go really wild with this position, and he'll raise his thighs up and grab my legs so we can go really hard. I can even have him come this way if I do it long enough!

2. Reverse , facing away * 6 -- it all depends on the angle. Sometimes I'll lean ALL the way back and have my back laying on top of him. My fiancè loves that too.

3. start regular, then try to lay back so that your head is at his feet. * -- 4, laying all the way back facing him is too hard for us....it hurts him after awhile.

Support your weight on your feet and knees, put your hands on his chest and rather than straddling him, bounce up and down on him. * 8 -- This is a lot of fun but my legs start to cramp up after awhile.

Doggy

1. regular * 10+++ Ooooooooh yeah...soooooo much fun! I love it when he grabs my butt/hips and goes crazy....it was the first time w/ this position where I got the really big O.

2. put your head down on the bed and put your butt up in the air. * 10+++ also a lot of fun...he can get really deep when my butt's up in the air.

3.start doggy and then fall flat on your stomach. kinda like missionary but on your stomach. * 8 -- We like this one, and we go slow with this position. Here my fiancè can kiss my neck, ears and I can even turn my head around and kiss him too.

4. Instead of the usual doggy, close your legs and have him put his legs on the outside of yours. This is a good one. * 5 -- This one is ok. We were kinda so so on this one.

MISSIONARY

1. While having missionary style sex, buck your hips and meet his thrusts halfway. Use the bed to make you bounce higher. I buck my hips so hard and fast that he has to grab the sheets or headboard to keep him from being thrown off me. * 9+ -- This is great for when we want to have fast, raunchy sex. Lots of fun!!

2. In missionary, have him drop his weight on top of you so that he rests on his forearms, Wrap your legs tightly around his waist. In this variation, I love to kiss him and sometimes draw my nails in to his back. * 10 -- He LOVES it when I do this. And so do I! :)

3. Close your legs so that he is straddling you. * 8 -- This one is ok...He can't move too fast if my legs are closed up, but it's fun if I want to delay his orgasm.

4. Have him align himself directly on top of you. In other words his kness are right above yours and your feet should be touching. Grab his butt and guide him. I like to move him in side to side motions. * 7 -- This one's almost like #3. But I like it.

5. During missionary sex, have him straddle your left leg. the key is he has to kinda turn his upper body a little to the right. It's a diffrent angle and feels good. * 8 -- I love this one too....the angle does feel really good.

6. Reverse Missionary, this one is kinda tricky. it took us about 5 tries to finally figure it out. You lay on your back, have him get on his hands and knees facing your feet, kinda straddling you. Have him come down, Put your legs on his back and help guide him in you. Once he's inside have him get comfortable and thrust just like regular missionary only shallow. This also frees both your hands so that you can fondle each other. If you can do it right, OMG! 8 Hmmmmmm.......haven't tried that one yet. I'll have to see if we can figure it out.

7. Missionary with 1 leg over shoulder * 8 -- Lots of fun, but not as good as #8

8. Missionary with both legs over his shoulders. * 10+++++ -- OMG!! Loooooooooooove this position. I have to make sure I've went #1 before hand, since when he enters me w/ my legs over shoulders, he presses right against my bladder and g-spot so I have to feel like I have to pee when I don't...but OMG...he can get so much deeper than doing it doggy style and it feels so raunchy, but we both love it. He can lean all the way forward or hold my legs straight up. We love this one so much that we try to do it each time we have sex. :):):)

9. The entwinement, Start missionary, take your feet and wrap them around his ankles, I like to open my legs as wide as I can and stretch him out a little * 8 -- I like doing this one too. :)

10. THE CAT also known as The Slow Rock, Start missionary, have him shift his hips so that they are higher than yours, have him drop his weight on you Instead of the usual thrusting, once inside of you, have him start grinding into you, circles, side to side, have him go crazy. What you'll like is that the way he's positioned on you, when he grinds he is putting direct stimulation on your clitoris. This variation is guaranteed to make your orgasm. I am yet to not orgasm when we do the cat. It just feels so good, the pressure, I know some people say that girl on top is best for putting pressure on your clitoris. They are wrong. I get alot more pleasure from This missionary variation than any other. Trust me, when you try this one, You are gonna be amazed and if it isn't your favorite, it will be now. Take your time and remember the key is for him not to thrust but just grind hard and fast. Or slow as long as he's grinding into you. * Haven't tried the CAT one either. I'll have to remember this one! Purrrrrrrrr

11. from missionary, when he drops his weight on you, have him place his hands under your butt and instead of you all thrusting just rock side to side. * 7 -- This one is ok too, but I prefer that he thrusts. I do like it when he goes in circles....he can totally move those hips of his. ;)

12. Have him hold you down by your wrists and thrust away. * 10++!!! -- I love it when he holds me down and thrusts away. Almost like being tied up but not. Soooooooo much fun. :)

13.The clock method, start missionary and while he's inside of you have him start moving himself so that he rotates all the way around. Picture a clock, You're still and he's the moving hand. He moves and moves and moves till he is back in regular missionary. This one can be hard keeping him inside, he needs to stay as snug into you as he can. But it is fun. Sometimes he gets to a certain angle and it hits the spot, so I'll have him stop and thrust into me. Usually I have him stop when we're forming an "X". Try it. * This is the third one we haven't tried yet. Most possisbly the hardest position. I'll try it if we're feeling adventurous. :)

~Jeanna

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Tue, 07-06-2004 - 9:46pm
Thanks Tigress. I hope you have fun experimenting with these positions. I guess your favorite was missionary with your legs over his shoulders? Ithink that got 4 pluses and 3 smiling faces. LOL. Keep in touch. Here is a little site so you can check out the slow rock !



http://magazines.ivillage.com/cosmopolitan/sex/kama/articles/0,12747,284388_285701,00.html








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Registered: 07-05-2004
Tue, 07-06-2004 - 9:57pm
WOOHHH !!! Tigress very descriptive. I could actually picture the positions. LOL. Now you really made me wish my man was here. Ukgirl is right. The slow rock is totally diffrent. It's a slow building sensation for both of you. When my guy gets me in this position, we stay with it and in about 10 minutes we both orgasm together. the thing is that we are both putting pressure on our pubic areas and in time we just explode. This is our favorite position. I learned it in Cosmo and now I canm't stop using it. Although missionary with my legs over his shoulders gives it competition. You will see once you get him or shall i say he gets you in the slow rock. Hey, we should start a board where we get a few girls and each one of us writes a story ( sexual ) of course and then we each add. Someone picks the scenario, positions etc..... Who's game? At the same time, maybe we can learn more moves ! Tonight would be a perfect time for me. Just to add till my b/f tomorrow. I try to check the board every hour.
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Sat, 07-10-2004 - 6:03pm
I actually also replied on another board with my ratings, but here there are for this board too, cuz this one seems a bit more active..*lol*

First, my fiance and I are both 20 and we've been together for three and a half years, but won't likely marry for another five or six (we're both going to post-secondary school!)

Okay, I have to admit that we are very, uh...active when it comes to trying new positions and so I will give my ratings on all of the positions we've tried. Hence the blushing emoticon--that's A LOT of positions. Here it goes...

(P.S. check out my next post on this discussion for a couple of my own position suggestions)

COWGIRL

1. straddle, facing him; rate: 3

Not bad, but a lot of work and harder to just relax and feel everything. Leaning in against his chest can help.

2. straddle, facing away; rate: 5

SO good, but hard to maintain. It's really easy for him to 'fall out'.

3.regular & lean back; rate: 4

okay, but again really hard to maintain for same reason as above

4. bouncing on him; rate 5

he LOVES it, but it can get kinda rough. Hard work, but still pretty good.

DOGGY

1. regular; rate: 3

can be kinda hard on a girl, especially once he really gets into it.

2. head on bed, butt in air; rate: 10+

if he thrusts shallowly or even just stops inside, I can climax over and over

3. stomach missonary; rate: 7

a bit hard to maintain, but WELL worth the effort.

4. close legs, his outside yours;

never tried, but DEFINITELY will and I'll let you know! *lol*

MISSIONARY

1. hips bucking to meet thrusts; rate: 8

if you're in the mood for a bit rougher sex, this is one to try. Start a bit slow though, to make sure it won't be too rough for you

2. legs wrapped; rate: 10

he loves this, I love this and as to the nails, my fiance would gladly show you the well-earned nail scratches on his back. Plus, I grabbing his behind often turns him on.

3.legs closed; rate: 3

very hard to maintain

4.aligned on top of you; rate: 2

good for entertainment purposes only in my experience. He usually falls off (lack of balance) and we end up laughing for a while. It's nice to laugh, but it usually happens at the WORST time.

5.left leg straddle; never done

6.Reverse Missionary; hmm, sounds good, I shall try it....

7.one leg over his shoulder; rate: 8

oh so good, especially for the vunerable feeling that can sometimes be a big turn on. Also, it's a great angle.

8.both legs over his shoulders; rate: 10+

amazing for depth, angle...everything. my favorite position by far.

9. The entwinement; rate: 5

this usually turns into legs wrapped around his back, cuz I don't find he gets a good angle this way.

10. THE CAT; rate: 10

he surprised me with this one, one day. WOW! Try it and you'll LOVE it.

11. rocking; rate: 5

okay, but he isn't very stimulated this way.

12.hold down wrists; rate 8

very good if you like to feel a bit vunerale. Plus, he likes it cuz he feels powerful. *lol*

13.clock method; rate: 3

REALLY hard to maintain and it feels like it's more working than it's worth. Try it, though--maybe you can make it work.

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Sat, 07-10-2004 - 6:05pm
As promised, a couple of my favourite variations on some old classics. *lol* lemme know what you think of them because a lot of them, my SO and I stumbled upon by experimenting.

1. Start in girl-on-top and have him sit up, so you're sitting on his lap. Bounce by pushing your legs against the bed and have him push up. The closeness is nice and provides A LOT of really nice friction.

2. Same thing, but try it on a chair.

3. He stands behind you and picks up one of your legs. You bend over as if to touch your toes and stablize yourself with your hands on a chair or the wall. He enters again from behind and thrusts.

4. This one's a bit more difficult, but worth the trouble. Sit on his lap facing him and allow him to insert himself inside you. Wrap your legs around his back and let him lying down backwards on top of your legs. It takes practice, but he helps you move up and down by place his hands on your butt.

5. Lie on your side in front of him and bend at you waist to point your butt at his penis. He enters from behind and both of you rock back and forth. He LOVES it and so do I because it's really good for stimulating the g-spot.

Most of our other positions are very similar to the ones UK Girl mentioned, but I will let you know about any others we 'discover'. *lol*

Cheers and, as always, have fun!!

Sunset

P.S. Print off the list of position and have your SO rate the positions too. I tried this last night with my fiance with interesting and amusing results!