He's back...

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-18-2007
He's back...
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Thu, 05-24-2007 - 12:02am

Here we go again...But, I doubt if I go there. Ok, the guy that I've posted about on here that I made the mistake by watching the Paris Hilton sex tape with and letting him touch my body(I wasn't ready for sex) has contacted me again via my yahoo mail address.

He didn't technically ghost, we had just stopped speaking because he got angry/hurt/demanding when he thought he was going to get sex and did NOT. I had written him off for this type of behavior and also for a comment that he made that was very clear to me that he wanted/expected any girlfriend of his to engage in "anal rimming". I'm not into that and I told him that, but now he's back wanting to talk.

Several women on here think that I was wrong for teasing the guy. Yeah, I was. It WAS poor judgement on my part, I admit that. I dunno, we got along great, and he was a gentleman, but there were red flags and truthfully I'm not thinking this guy deserves another chance.

Opinions?

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-10-2007
Fri, 05-25-2007 - 9:55am
If you are seeing red flags, go with your instinct. Especially if he expects certain sexual favors that you are not comfortable with (rimming). These expectations, I am sure, are NOT going to go away.