He's gone...

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Registered: 04-20-2007
He's gone...
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Thu, 05-10-2007 - 3:13pm
We ended up talking once more and now he's gone. I'll be lucky to ever talk to him again now. We ended our conversation without a goodbye. Please don't judge. I just wanted everyone to know that aside from what i told you he really was great to talk to and listen to. We shared something special..not inappropriate in any way.....and now he's gone. He didn't even say goodbye!
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Registered: 02-09-2007
Thu, 05-10-2007 - 3:21pm

I know you are probably wishing that there was better closure... that the ideal would have been a firm, respectful

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Registered: 08-01-2006
Thu, 05-10-2007 - 3:22pm

No judgement from me.... I'm just sorry you had to go through that. It's hard and painful. But believe me, you will survive. You know where I am, if you want to talk.

{{{HUGS}}}



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Registered: 04-20-2007
Thu, 05-10-2007 - 3:27pm
I do wish he would have at least said goodbye to me rather than just leave. You're right about my family though. He actually agreed that it was wrong and that he was sorry for putting me in an awkward position. He felt also that he was wronging his SO by talking to me. I guess i was just more emotionally attached than I thought. I'm sure DH will be happy!
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Registered: 02-09-2007
Thu, 05-10-2007 - 3:29pm
good!
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Registered: 04-20-2007
Thu, 05-10-2007 - 3:30pm
I know this board isn't for this kind of stuff. I don't understand how I became so emotionally attached in such a short period of time. It really did hurt me more not hearing goodbye then it did arguing with him about why things had to be this way. I guess the easiest way out for him was to walk away. That's what he said to me. He said he would just walk away because it would be easier for him that way...(tears)....lol...I don't know why I'm crying when I'm in love with the man of my dreams and married to him! It's for the best i know. It just ended on the wrong note! Thanks for the advice. I made him read it. He's more familiar to this board than people know! Gotta go!
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Registered: 03-31-2007
Thu, 05-10-2007 - 3:35pm

Hi Erika,

I was out for a good bit of today and was just reading your 'e-mail to him' when this thread popped up. I don't think it's really necessary to comment on the hows & whys at this point, but I do think you did the right thing.

I know it was hard, so here are some {{{{{H U G S}}}}}.



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Registered: 04-20-2007
Thu, 05-10-2007 - 3:51pm
Thanks girl....(=