he's no longer interested in sex

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Registered: 04-07-2003
he's no longer interested in sex
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Sun, 09-03-2006 - 9:03pm

My DBF has battled weight issues all his life. Recently, he gained weight and is now at his heaviest. We were away for the weekend, and he confided in me that he has no interest in sex because of his weight. However, he still enjoys me: pinching my bum, touching, etc.

I'm also overweight and while the lapse doesn't really bother me, it bothers me that he is so down on himself. What can I do to help him know that I think he is still the attractive man I love? I tell him this, but I don't think he quite believes me.

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Mon, 09-04-2006 - 10:08am

You really can't make him believe you, he has to believe it.


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